Honestly, I have a pantyhose fetish. I don't know why I lke to stare at women's pantyhosed legs, but I just like them. I had this fetish long ago, backing to my highschool years, I guess. I married my wife after college, and told her that I have a fetish about pantyhoses. At first she couldn't understand but it worked out very well for us later. Now I can't even eject without her nude pantyhoses on, I need them every single time when we have sex. The problem is that I found by chance that my son has the same fetish as me! We talked that with him and he said if we want him to quit, I have to quit myself firstly. But I just can't, I've been doing that for 15 years, I can't even get excited without my wife's pantyhoses! But I know that is a fetish, and I don't want my son being as the same as myslef. God knows whethet he can find a good wife as mine who accepts your fetish. How can I do? I need help!
2006-11-19 08:27:41 · 8 answers · asked by bob w 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have the same kind, there's no problem. Enjoy your wife's feet!
2006-11-19 09:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by That One! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. First of all, has this fetish ever caused a problem in your behavior toward others or in your relationship with your wife? As long as your relationship with your wife is not damaged by this, and you have to inclination toward inappropriate behavior toward others, I would say that this fetish is not a problem, just an oddity in what you find stimulating.
. If you want your son to not have this fetish, then I think that you and he should see the same psychiatrist. It is apparent that he has this fetish, whether you want him to or not. If there is any chance that this can be "cured' by being treated early, it is going to require professional help. And, it would not seem fitting to ask that he seek treatment for it unless you also seek it. If, with treatment, he loses, or lessens the fetish, and for whatever reason you do not, well, at least he will see that you took the same medicine.
2006-11-19 16:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by PoppaJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this will sound pretty weird but maybe there is something in your past that you can trace this "fetish" too. but if you don't want your son to have it then you have to stop. people don't realize this but there children look up to them as an example no matter what age. it has become more then just a fetish when you start needing them in bed with you it becomes obsession
2006-11-19 16:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like pantyhose....more power to you and your son, just hope they never stop making them.:)
Accept yourself and your son. I think your too judgemental of yourself for your own good. The lack of "taboo" will limit the effect this situation has on your son. I doubt it's genetic.
2006-11-19 17:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like his fetish is fully-formed. too late.
the best you can hope for is that he grows out of it.
like any fetish, the weirdness and seeming taboo is part of the atrraction to it. so if the parents forbid it, it will only reinforce his.
let him live his life. your fetish did you no harm; let him see where his goes.
2006-11-19 16:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think it'll be all right, dude.
2006-11-19 16:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by Nipivy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interesting.... i'll wait for some answers from people too.
2006-11-19 16:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
weirdo, that not the right place. see a psychiatrist both of you...and add to that the mrs. too. hope it helps.
2006-11-19 16:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋