my gf kept asking about my ex all the time so i admitted i was thinking of going to see her in london just for drinks and she was very upset she said it still hurts now weeks later.jesus its not like a have cheated on her so why wont she let it go?
2006-11-19 08:21:41 · 20 answers · asked by lisasbarred 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
because she probably still feels u have feelings for ur ex
2006-11-19 08:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by flyinghigh006 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up, lad. You girlfriend's fixation on your ex is rather normal. However, you admitting you were going to see your ex, and over drinks, well, for shame. Actually, that would indeed be just like cheating....is, even.
You either want the ex or want the current. Perhaps you should figure that out and let your current know. And if current is your choice, then make certain she knows you no longer have feelings for ex.
Simple enough, eh?
2006-11-19 08:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um hello?
You're supposed to be in a commited relationship with one girl yet you're wanting to go out with drinks with someone else?! Imagine how you'd feel if the person you loved was thinking about traveling just to have drinks with an ex.
2006-11-19 08:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by candyflesh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does the EX question always come up!
My gf went as far as to suggest I meet up with her EX
NO NO NO NO NO!
I don't want to know about anyone putting there hands on my girl never mind meeting them!!
(I am not over posessive really : p )
2006-11-20 03:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by nevergrowup 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because, women get jealous easily . and would you like it if she went to have an couple of drinks with her ex? i didn't think so. shes feeling betrayed and hurt and maby thinks you want to get back with her. you need to reassure her that you didn't want to get back with your ex. she may not believe you but you tried right? i would really think about how it would feel if the tables were turned around. why was she thinking and asking about your ex in the first place?
2006-11-19 08:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your girlfriend with you to London to see the ex.
2006-11-19 08:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by corkie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she has to cover. you will ought to pay newborn help for this newborn a looong time (until you marry her or until the newborn is complete with college). that's useful to not elect to pay funds for a newborn that should be somebody else's. in case you do the attempt and he or she breaks up with you, so what? What if the outcomes come out that the newborn isn't yours? you do not ought to pay newborn help EVER. She ought to come back to you besides. she will have a not ordinary time looking after a newborn on her own. DO IT!
2016-10-22 09:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by kreitzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she thinks that you will leave her and that hurt her feelings you need to day sorry also say that you weren't thinking of leaving her and that you onlythink of your ex as a friend. Then take her somewhere special.
2006-11-19 08:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt feel comfortable with my partner seein an ex, its wierd coz you know there an ex for a reason but theres always a nagging feelin-do they still love each other,do i match up, tell her you dont have those feelings for your ex anymore
2006-11-19 08:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by NightOwl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well she picked up on the vibes that you were planning to go and visit your ex....before you told her....Maybe she just doesn't trust the 2 of you together....You gotta make a big choice here..
2006-11-19 08:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's maybe a bit insecure and jealous of the fact that you can still be friends with your ex. lots of reassurance from you might help.
2006-11-19 08:27:52 · answer #11 · answered by feefee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋