HELP!!! how can i do this with out neither one of us getting hurt???

Question

well i really care about my boyfriend alot but it hasnt been working out between us because we havent even talked well he told every1 he cares about me but i dont think its going 2 work out so how can ibreak up with him without hurting myself or him??????

Answer 1

Only you are responsible for your happiness. Sometimes you have to do something for yourself that may be hurtful to someone else. Tell him that you don't think the relationship is working out and you would like to remain his friend but for now you need to be alone. Then leave. Don't be hateful or angry because that never helps. Just be calm and determined to take the best care of yourself that you can emotionally and physically. Staying in a relationship that isn't working is hurtful to both of you. Leaving is much kinder. The hurt will pass with time and you can go on with your life.

Answer 2

If you don't think it's going to work anyway whats the point in prolonging the agony? It's obvious your heart isn't in the relationship so your best ending it now, cause the longer you leave it the harder it will be.Just be upfront with him and tell him the way you feel.There may be a few tears but you will both get over it and as they say plenty more fish in the sea.Good luck and do as your heart tells you.

Answer 3

Its really very simple.

Just tell him that you don't think it is going to work out and that both of you need to go your separate ways. Without a doubt, he feels the same way. Good luck. Pops

Answer 4

Sorry it just don't work unless you two can come to a mutual break-up but really someone will be hurt thats life.

Answer 5

well have u made a not bitchy effort to talk to him (aka not yelling @ him or telling his friends that he should talk to u)??? if u have mad a not bitchy effort tell him that u r just 2 good of friends and its weird to b going out w\ him.(even if u arnt friends and it isnt weird)