Me and my husband had separated about 4 years ago. We remained close friends and he did use my address alot because of his job and being gone a lot. When we separated I applied through my county DFACs for childcare benefits. Here is the problem - We decided to try and work things out and get back together and he stayed with me for about a month. Well things didnt work out so we again separated. He is at my house alot because of the kids and he keeps them alot when they are out of school and keeps them at my house. Well I got a letter the other day from DFACs stating they have confirmation that he is living here and they will not listen to a word I have to say. What should I do?? I mean I am willing to give up the benefits b/c it doesnt save me that much now that they both are in school. It is like whatever confirmation they have (they say it is anonymous) over rides whatever I have to say. What do you think DFACs will do?? My childcare has already been terminated.
2006-11-19
07:56:36
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reni768
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I tried explaining all of this to the Case Worker and she just said we have confirmation. I wonder what sort of confirmation they would have - any ideas?
2006-11-19
08:09:27 ·
update #1