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why do women feel the need to create an arguement out of nothing - is it just something that they need to do, or have I got myself a difficult specimen!?

2006-11-19 07:49:07 · 24 answers · asked by abbs2k 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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It sounds like you have discovered WOMAN. Nope, men will NEVER understand women. About the time you think you have ONE figured out, they reverse directions.

Accept them as they are and do what you have to do. You just have a typical specimen.

GOOD LUCK. Pops

2006-11-19 07:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Pops 6 · 0 0

Nope. Men will never understand women. And that argument is NOT created out of NOTHING. I know this because my wife tells me so...

They're all difficult specimens. Beautiful, mysterious, aggravating, exasperating, incredible, addicting specimens.

God, I LOVE 'em!

Cave

p.s. My wife says that if we ever get close to understanding them, then they'll very quickly change their game plan. Those broads have the game DOWN.

2006-11-19 16:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by caveman 3 · 0 0

Men and women seem to have very different priorities and pay attention to very different things. What is important to her might not be important to you. Try to listen to her without feeling defensive. She is perhaps a bit immature so hopefully she'll learn to be more understanding. I don't know whether you got yourself a difficult specimen or not, not knowing your wife/girlfriend but I think many women nowadays have fiery temper. I just hope yours is not one of these.

2006-11-19 16:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If men did ever get to understand women, they would change the rules and send us back into confusion.

I think they create an argument from nothing when they want attention or need you to tell them how great they are. When you've actually done something wrong, they'll tell you straight. Usually 100 times.

I know where you're coming from.

2006-11-19 16:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by Cracker 4 · 0 0

Oh, I hope not! It would take all the fun out of it, and we'd have to change the rules, wouldn't we??

Seriously, if we knew what the argument was about, we might be able to give you some relevant feedback. Without knowing anything about it, we can't tell whether it's your "specimen", as you call her, being difficult, or you being arrogant, unreasonable, ignorant, etc.

2006-11-19 15:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0 0

The create an argument to get a response, to find out how you really feel about something, When men have a problem they go into a cave, women need to talk/argue/cry/get it off their chests. Read 'Men are from Mars, women are from Venus'.

2006-11-19 15:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Thats why the chemistry mixing of differences
men need to back off certain times of the month and embrace always..even when she says No.. leave me alone still give her a hug..or visa versa...
Men also need to be patient ..
I think maybe men will never understand.. nor we them..but making up is so worth it.. lots of times u cant even remember what the squabble was even about.. :) :) when u really love each other
and dont bring up past fights if u can possibly help it!... or the past at all ..!!!
does any of this help?...

2006-11-19 15:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0 0

Men and women's Brains are wired differently. Now that we've got that stated all I can say is something is wrong. A woman will argue and not let you know anything if something is really bothering her and she doesn't know how to handle it herself. All you can do is try not to let the argument get out of control. You'd hate to break up over something silly.

2006-11-19 15:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 0 1

Women don't create arguments for nothing. Sometime you men just refuse to listen and fail to see what is right under your noses

2006-11-19 15:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0 0

things aren't black and white for us woman like they sometimes are for men. We see in the gray...we think about every single way a situation can work out. And what can i say? we like to express emotions. It irriates us when men don't understand that need. But that's ok...many of us learn to live with it.

2006-11-19 15:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by Natalya 3 · 1 0

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