i think that nobody like my character!! ;-( how can i change my character? pls help me i am so desperate
2006-11-19 06:18:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
pls i want serious suggests! i am so sad...
2006-11-19 06:21:22 · update #1
i always care too much for others
2006-11-19 06:31:24 · update #2
i am not open character.
2006-11-19 06:38:45 · update #3
I DONT HATE ANYONE!
2006-11-19 06:39:15 · update #4
what's the problem ?! more details needed, but don't try to change your life for others, they should accept you the way you are,
2006-11-19 06:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by OMID T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Treat people like the way you want them to treat you with.
Put a plan for your self. Choose a time period (like for example two weeks) and put a target for it. The target can be either a good new feature of character or loosing a bad one. If this period ends evaluate your self and start a new period with new (more advanced goals). Continue like that until you feel satisfied with your new character.
Good luck.
2006-11-19 06:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by zxcpoi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change your beliefs about yourself first. If you think no one likes you for you then change that thought into something more positive. People should accept you for how you are now and you deserve respectful friends in your life. Maybe you are looking for validation from the wrong people, try a little soul searching and realize you are great now no matter what anyone else thinks!!!!!
2006-11-19 06:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking about your character as in yourself, don't change for anyone. I know it may sound corny but just be yourself, cause if you werent yourself, who would you be?
I know you might be sad because you aren't like everyone else, but in reality EVERYONE is different. You have to be who you are.
I am "different" in that I am so obsessed with Wicked and sure people make fun of me for it but why? It makes me happy. It floats my boat. And if that isnt okay with them then I'm sorry.
If you aren't like everyone else that I think that your doing a pretty good job.
2006-11-19 06:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by justalilwickedx3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about your character. If people do not like you for who you are then they are not worthy of you in the first place. Good luck
2006-11-19 06:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by EternalBlueMemory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change who you are...if you force it you will be the most miserable person around and unhappy. Lots of people don't like the way I am but most do I don't care...people have to like you the way you are, or that's just too bad.
2006-11-19 06:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by billyboysblue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you suffer from low sefl-esteem. I think you might be convincing yourself that people dislike you, without having any proof of this. Don't put yourself down! If you have a more positive attitude, people will warm to you!
2006-11-19 06:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Megafunk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you can not please everyone by becoming someone you are not. You just need to be yourself, and don't be rude.
If someone can't accept you for who you are, then no amount of changing will be the answer.
2006-11-19 06:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi!! could u plz give details??
which aspect of ur character ppl don't like??
2006-11-19 06:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll....caring about people is sumthin that more ppl should be like. don't wry, u got frineds, ur not a hater, UR GOOD!
2006-11-19 07:16:58 · answer #10 · answered by henna<3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋