Why you girls think double minded
Of one guy do premartial sex with girl its ok for you then what happen if do the sex with other woman after marriage
what is the difference? Is it not double standred
2006-11-19 05:17:10 · 11 answers · asked by sanjay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you really that stupid to believe that this is double standard?
If this is the way you really think then I suggest you run back to you mother so she can explain the difference to you in a very simple way because that's the only way for you to get it through your single minded mind.
Once you get married the only person you should ever have sex with is your spouse and no one else and as for being double standard, NOT.
2006-11-19 05:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prior to marriage you made no promises to me. If you have sexual relations with another woman after we got married, with vows to be faithful to me and only me, then you are a liar and a cheat.
There is no double standard. Its a matter of integrity between you and your wife.
Now turn the question around. Your wife has sex prior to marriage, and then continues to have sex with men other than yourself after you two marry. You wouldn't have a problem with that?
2006-11-19 13:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should read over ur question b4 u send it. it was very confusing. U can do what u want b4 marriage I guess. But the whole reason of getting married is to b w/the ONE person! DUUU!! If u didn't wanna be w/ONE person then u shoulda' stayed single! what was ur purpose of getting married anyway?Would u approve of ur wife doing it w/other guys? Did u really think u were going to get any answers siding w/u? I bet not too many.
2006-11-19 13:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by same girl/new name :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called being unfaithful. Once you're married, you have made a promise and committment to love and be faithful to your wife. Having sex with other women after marriage is wrong. Would it be okay with you if your wife had sex with other men?
2006-11-19 16:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i understand your question correctly, it sounds like you're just venting here and not really asking anything. you're condemning all women as being not fair, and having a double standard as far as being "faithful" or "chaste" prior to marriage. seems to me that men have held that double standard since the beginning of time. are the scales beginning to even out now? how about just accepting each person for who he or she is and if you love them you love them. if you find fault with them and are constantly looking for an excuse to split up with them, you don't love them anyway and don't really need an excuse, now, do you? you want to come out looking like the "wronged" party, when in reality if you made her love you, she wouldn't be cheating would she?
2006-11-19 13:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by vrandolph62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is all mixed up sanjay, but you see in marriage vows are taken and women expects men to be true to their vows. In pre marital sex, there are still no vows made before mad and God or Whatever they call him.
2006-11-19 13:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we are all individuals and its on you to accept the others baggage or past if you cant then it is really time to move on
2006-11-19 13:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex with other women?? if u are married have sex with ur wife dude?? have sex with only ur wife ok!!
!EL STUDITO!
2006-11-19 13:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by Shellie :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, may your woman sleep around as well?
2006-11-19 13:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by lonesome 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adultry/fornication.little sin big problem.
2006-11-19 13:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋