Would you call it cheating or being unfaithfull if a man masturbates regularly over images on the P.C. or on a web cam with a girl the other end watching??
2006-11-19 04:56:50 · 38 answers · asked by Steve 'E' 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the web cam yes
but for pictures;
no not cheating but thats what a man does, and some women do the same thing because its just human nature
2006-11-19 04:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
many only consider the physical aspects of cheating, but there are also the emotional aspects that most do not acknowledge. This is definitely emotional cheating. If you are masturbating looking at others and allowing others to watch, then you have emotional checked out of your relationship with your wife. If you had a great connection with her you wouldn't feel right doing this. You are placing your wants, desires and satisfaction ALL on others - How does this show respect for your wife? Your sexual intimacy is just that - intimacy....you can't have true intimacy if you are satisfying you needs elsewhere. What happens when you do have relations with your wife? Do pictures and thoughts of other come to mind...if so, you have robbed her and yourself from this experience to connect on a very intimate level. This is why doing these acts are cheating...it may not be physical at this time, but you are definitely cheating her out of a true intimate relationship. The other thing is, most that begin this type of behavior won't stop there. Most will move on to the actual physical cheating!
2006-11-19 06:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by Cjs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little because over cam I mean why would he do that if he has a wife that's kinda weird abviously the wife doesnt have what he wants to be looking at young girls over the P.C and needs help thats kinda cheating just like asking a girl on the street to come over and strip yeh its kinda cheating because it's sexual relations with someone other than your mate....duuh
2006-11-19 05:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mrsz.Sanders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Mr. Web Cam how bout putting the shoe on the other foot?? Would you like it if your lady was getting off to pics of good looking men with big D**ks??? And would you like it if she was masturbating in front of some other man on a web cam?? Another man watching your lady get off and he's prob beeting off on the other end to the site of your lady?? Yes I consider this cheating. And oh yeah if you are the lady and you wrote this cause your old man is doing this get rid of him he aint worth the time! that is sick!!
2006-11-19 05:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by littlebit02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is good.
That means something is missing out of the relationship.
I get every once in a while but not all the time.
Why would a man need to masturbate daily at the computer?
I would think maybe he don't know how to satisfy his partner, whats he doing wrong?
Their could be something medically wrong with the partner they should get it checked out.
Stress also has allot to do with the female getting in the mood. You just can't say lets do it & expect her to be ready at a drop of the hat, forplay really helps you know.
2006-11-19 05:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl watching through a camera...yes. I would be ticked. Tell him either to stop or you are done. You deserve better than that. I wouldn't say it is cheating, I would say it is a disregard for your boundaries. You deserve to be respected.
Just through images of random porn stars, no. No big deal. I would even deem it necessary.
Images of ladies he knows through cameras? Yes. Images of ladies he knows in real life? Yes. Chances are, if he knows them...he is doing more than cybering. Regardless, boundaries are being ignored.
Cyber sex with just words on an AIM window...yes.
Just porn? No.
Going to strip clubs? No.
If you feel your personal boundaries are being violated, leave him. Period. Chances are you won't trust him online and chances are he will just try and hide it.
2006-11-19 05:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and a man would argue this til he is blue in the face. the internet has made it possible for infidelity to cross the line and somehow it will enter legislation one day soon i'm sure. you have 2 humans masturbating basically looking at each other, short of touching......that is emotional cheating. period. no contest.
2006-11-19 05:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by bella36 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would call that cheating, what your doing is very personal and should be shared only with someone you love. Also be aware of your own privacy, do you really know who is watching you, could be all sorts of people and not the good kind. Please stop this, if my boyfriend did this I would dump him.
2006-11-19 05:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by Pearl N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, to porn pics.
Yes, to web cam interaction.
Why? There is another real person involved in one of these scenarios.
2006-11-19 05:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because men need visual aids to help them get aroused. It's just the way men are. I would not like it and once I caught my ex-husband and he had been on my PC and he wasn't very knowledgeable about - the history button, Well that told me a lot and I was so mad. And with lipstick I wrote on his mirror his PC name "flapper lapper," didn't speak to him for a week.
2006-11-19 05:05:01 · answer #10 · answered by docie555@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋