If your not really close to your parents...and you wish you were..whats something they could do to get closer to you? My sis ters into dir en grey (sorry if its spelled wrong) but shes always complaining that my dad hates her. He tells me he does but i know he doesnt...she just told us she was gay last year...shes only 17 but she does want to be close to him even tho she says she doesnt. whats something i could get them to do together that would make them get to know eaqch other? thanks for your answers!
2006-11-19 04:30:45 · 5 answers · asked by cutenwild1769 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
NO its not like that he said hed do something with her...but he said he wants her to go deer hunting...theres no way in hell my sister is going to go deer hunting...and you really cant talk whi8le your deer hunting anyways and she only wants to go see her dir en grey stuff
2006-11-19 04:35:12 · update #1
heres what i say, You can take a horse to the water but cant make him drink. (not sayin your family members are horses or anythin)
i would suggest you just let them do thier own thing, im sure your dad knows what hes doin and same as your sister
good luck
2006-11-19 05:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Look if your sister is gay and your dad hates her for it... Even though I believe everyone should have there own sense of sexuality, I really don't like the gay thing.. It's weird and I think that it would be better if everyone was straight.... My uncle was gay, I always feel weird about it... To be honest I think you should let them be, don't put yourself in the middle.... Try to get your Dad to talk to your sister, and if they won't then that's the way it is.. My parents are divorced and I hate being in the middle of there relationship, I've finally said NO! Now I don't put my self in the middle... You have a choice... You sound like your pretty frightened.. You should talk to your pastor (if you're christian) or your friend, school counsellor, someone who trust about this... And try not to take on there anger towards each other.. You must be having a really rough time..
Good - luck! And I'm really sorry to all you gay people if I sounded like racial.
Good -luck! And it's not your fault.
Karina
2006-11-19 12:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cannot force people together. If they want to be closer, its something for the two of them to work on. Its nice of you to want their relationship to be better, but its not your call.
2006-11-19 12:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rather not be close to my parents because if i am they always going to be in my business, walk in on me when im having sex with my gf and take away my weed.
2006-11-19 12:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A STRIPPER! jk sorry had to forgive me
2006-11-19 12:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by Bleed the Freak 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋