Why am i so desperate for a baby and a boyfriend but im only in my late teens?
2006-11-19 04:13:46 · 16 answers · asked by xxadeeynxx 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
baby girl, I had my child when I was eighteen, I just turned 18. Her father, whom I was dating since I was 14 was so happy, we were gonna get an apartment and play house. As soon as that belly started getting bigger, the less I saw him. I was more lonely and depressed then ever. I had lost all my "friends", they wanted to go out and of course I had to stay home or I was uninvited. If i did go I had a horrible time. Oh, I forgot to mention, when I was just 3 months pregnant, my boyfriend took on another hobby"smoking crack", but he didn't have to worry about me leaving him because I was pregnant and no matter what he was to be a part of my life FOREVER. Well, he had to support his habit and started a life a crime and ended up getting 6 years in prison. So not only was I lonely , depressed, and broke, I had a baby on the way without a DADDY. So if you are desperate think about sitting in the house all day and nite with your baby, no money, no friends, and no DADDY!! Enjoy your young years, have fun now, and when your alittle older, more settled down, graduated from college and have everything you want, then find a HUSBAND, Buy A HOME and then you'll be able to provide the best life for your child, without struggling like I did. If you need love and are desperate just read this. You probly don't realize how many people love you, and you don't need a child. GET A HOBBY< DO CHARITY WORK and for your own sake, be patient and smart.
2006-11-19 04:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by ivyhudson21369@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with volunteering at a daycare. Take your time in having a baby. I am 25 years old, happily married, financially stable, and I have a baby, and it is still not always easy!! My son is totally worth it, but I don't think someone in their teens is ready for a baby. Focus on your education right now. Go to college, get a career you are happy with, and then think about having a baby. There is absolutely no rush...trust me. Enjoy your youth and freedom now!! Have fun!!
2006-11-19 12:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by DaisyGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to 666 dont im him or email him please!!!!!!!!!!
you dont need to worry about this at the moment i had a pregnancy scare earlier this year and it was the worst time of my life waiting to find out noing that i wouldnt beable to lead the life i wanted i do want children just not in my teens in a few years when im settled with my fience and we have both got the money to support the child.
please just concentrate on being a teenager now you dont want the stress of a baby and you will regret it and blame the baby for you not having the life you deserve.
good luck
2006-11-19 13:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea, perhaps an older sibling has had a child early on or you felt no love growing up.
DO NOT THINK THAT HAVING A BABY WILL PUT LOVE THERE.
trust me it wont. Get a career then think about babies. Anyway unless youve been in a relationship and a solid one for 5 years or more there's no way you can even think about having a baby that you can't afford to keep.
2006-11-19 12:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by Scatty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because there is so much pressure from the media and tv that teen girls think they must get pregnant to fit in. If I were you, I'd concentrate on growing up and enjoying being a teenager.
2006-11-19 12:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by Laura W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you will think it will make you feel whole but what ever you do don't have a baby its so much hard work you wont have time to enjoy being together and you will miss out on so much good luck and think very carefully
2006-11-21 07:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you want to be loved. I was like this too and had a child. I love her but it made my life much harder, distract your time go to school and get an education first trust me on this or volunteer at a daycare or something
2006-11-19 12:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly natural to feel this way. We all get afraid in our teens that we won't have these things and won't be "normal".
Trust me, hon, you will have these things, but wait, please wait. Use this time to get your life set in other areas so that you will have to most you can have to offer the boyfriend and child.
2006-11-19 12:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by donnakayh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A need to Love or to have someone need you....but do not rush things....having a child is a big reasponsiblity....And if you had one now you would miss going out with your friends because you have to stay home with your child.
2006-11-19 12:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by shywiz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps uv seen couples wit babies around your age xxx dnt worri hun you'll find a lovely bf and sooner or l8r you'll have a beautiful baby in ur arms
2006-11-20 12:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by devils sweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋