i was married for thirteen years i found from my 11 yr old that my wife was cheating on me every time i left the house .
that was the end of that realitionship ! I found a very beautiful woman that had no problem taking care of me and my two daughters but........ now after four years reguardless of how many times a day i tell her i love her or no matter how attention i give her she is now searching for more companionship from other people we even had a son of our own who is now two years old.
why must life be so ungiving why must i keep trying just to keep failing
2006-11-19 03:53:56 · 4 answers · asked by irondevil1968 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I must admit, life does not always seem fair. It is amazing how many people in the world just aren't good marriage partners. Did you have any signs before you got married that they might cheat later in life? The only thing I can think to tell you is to try and choose your spouse very wisely. There are so many bad people in this world, but there are also good ones. You just have to pick very carefully. You seem like a wonderful man, and it seems so unfair that you keep ending up with women who want to stray. I can tell you really love your current wife. Did you try talking to her about how you are feeling? I don't know what to tell you, but a lot of times in life, things happen for a reason. Good luck in everything, and I hope things start to seem better soon. Just think of your kids. I am assuming that you think they are absolutely wonderful. You will always have them. :) Keep your head up, and good luck.
2006-11-19 04:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by Math Helper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever considered that your being too needy.Women don't like that.We want our man to be confident and strong.Stop telling her you love her stop going out of your way to give her your attention.Start making plans to go out more with the guys and hey go out for drinks with other women(but never cross the line between friendship)It sounds pretty stupid but she should respond to this. It sounds like a silly game but any money it works.Good luck!
2006-11-19 12:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are not failing. It's the women you choose who keep failing.
2006-11-19 11:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what did you do to get this kind of karma?
2006-11-19 11:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋