help please something is really wronge?

Question

i am right now 13 years old and 3 months pregnant and single my parents don't know that i'm pregnant yet because it is not showing up as me being fat yet but it soon willo because i was really skinny but anyway i have been puking blood for the past 12hours and been in so much pain that i can't even hardly move i have the house to my self for the whole weekend my parents will be home tomorrow night at midnight and i don't know what to do these pain and the puking started last night around 9:00pm i haven't been to see a doctor yet other than to get a blood test at plan parenthood i live in the midddle of nowhere and the father of my baby left me about 2 1/2 months ago and is nowhere to be found i have tried to get a hold of him in the past it was hard enough to go through this when we were together but it is even harder now that we are a part so if anyone has anything that might help me in this please do so!!!!! thanks~elissa

i just puked about a half an hour ago and no blood my pains are starting to ease but i got a realy heavy flow about 20 minutes ago i called plan parenthood and they said that i have most likely had a misscarriage and i have a app on the dec. 5 just to make sure i feel really bad for my baby if it did die because i became very loving for it in just 3 months even though it caused me a lot of heart break because i thought that its father really loved me and he didn't or he never would have left me he stayed with me for the first 3 weeks of all this and then he just up and left he is 14 almost 15 and it was very painfull for me to have my heart broken by him we were together since i was 10 and i really loved him my parents were happy to hear that we broke up because they hated him because he is gothic and he turned me agisnt god and had me go gothic in just one year of dating him. if i did have a miscarriage i'll go though pph adn my parents will never know!

i just got in the door from the er with a broken heart the reason for puking blood was that i some how ate a 1/4 inch long piece of wire and that cause me to have a miscarriage i got a hold of shane (that babys dad) and he is really lieing through his teeth in this one he said that he feels my pain and that he is greatly hurt that the baby had died and he had the never to ask me back out now that i'm no longer pregnant after he left me because i was pregnant i want to spit in his face and if i wasn't talking to him over the phone i would have this miscarriage is giving me a lot of gilt not only was it the wire but to much stress on the baby so i'm very much hurt i'm still in a lot of pain! i have to go back to the hosptal tomorrow to have the wire removed. but i'm still not tell my parents that i was pregnant because they don't really need to know now i can deal with the miscarriage on my own it is half my fault that i got pregnant in the first place!

Answer 1

Honey I hope and pray that you sought immediate help. I am worried for you. This is not normal at all. You may have had a miscarriage but the puking blood has nothing to do with that, there is something else seriously going on inside of you. Please let us all know that you are alright. I will be checking back,

Answer 2

I'm glad you got yourself to the hospital and figured out what the problem was. When the immediate physical danger is passed, you should tell your parents first about the situation, then, and most importantly, that you have decided to start living a life of obedience to them and to the law. Tell them you will no longer have sex and you will also stop any other destructive behaviors immediately (whether it's drinking, drugs, smoking, etc.). Learn God's promises for you. You are still very young, you have lots of time to choose whether you want to live a happy life or a painful, dangerous one. Whatever religious experience you or your family has had or not had in the past, read these promises and think about them: "If you are willing and obedient, you will eat the best from the land, but if you resist and rebel, you will be devoured by the sword" (Isaiah 1:19, 20). "'Test me in this,' says the Lord Almighty, 'and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it'" (Malachi 3:10). The hour you read this, ask God with a little prayer for strength to help you pray, and for peace and knowledge of Him. He will not neglect that prayer because he has been waiting for you to pray it. I heard someone say recently, "The love of God for us is like the Amazon River flowing down to water one daisy."

Find all the youth resources you can, from Planned Parenthood and otherwise. There are people out there who are willing to help you.

Answer 3

you have problems girl. First you should not have been home along for a weekend. secand you should not be having sex if your not capeble of taking care of stuff. So now you need to get ahold of your parents or a trusted adult. Probebly the other adult becouse they are near by and can take you to the hospital. Becouse thats where you need to be asap. You probebly had a miscarrage. And no you shouldent be puking blood. So get on the phone now and get help. Then have someone call your parents and let them know whats going on

Answer 4

Hon,
Get yourself to the Dr., or better still...the emergency room, Vomiting blood isn't good. If you don't you run the risk of loosing the baby, and you don't want that. Better to be checked out and ok than to not and risk your health and the baby's.

Get someone to go with you. You'll need support. Call your parents and let them know you're going to the Dr. or emergency room. This is something that really needs to be looked into.

You're going to have to tell your parents sometime. Remember, it's not just your child, it's their grandchild. Something they should be proud of, not ashamed of. Men today as so irresponsible.

Answer 5

Please have someone take you to the hospital. That does not sound normal to me.Do you have an older sibling, cousin, aunt, uncle, or someone who you can talk to and can take you ASAP? Don't let anything happen to this baby because you are too scared to tell anyone.

I really don't know what could be causing the puking; I had "morning" sickness (all day sickness), but I never puked blood or was in pain. Please find someone to help you, even if it's your parents!!

Answer 6

Like she said go to the hospital ASAP because puking blood is a sign of internal problems

Answer 7

You really need medical attention. Maybe you could call a grandparent, or a friend's parents to come get you and take you to the ER? Or call an ambulance yourself. I do suggest that you call your parents and at least tell them your symptoms so that they can advise you on how to get help.

Answer 8

personally you need to see a doctor. First you need to tell your parents. They are there for you to help you no matter what you get into. Their unconditional love for you shouldn't keep you from telling them anything. The best thing is to be honest with your parents instead of hiding things because thats the only way they will be able to help. If you lie to them or keep it from them then they won't know what you need or what to do to help you.

Answer 9

Why are you on the computer?
You my dear should be at hospital.
Don't worry about the father of the baby right now just get yourself checked out and looked after.

Answer 10

you really need to get to a doctor even if you have to call an ambulance but you are putting you and your baby's health at risk go asap if they call your parents then you will probably have to tell them but look at it this way you have to tell them sooner or later so it's better to go and be safe then not go and be sorry