Our moms are really close,so we are.They can be mean so not everybody likes them:sometimes I don't.A lot of people call them b- and I don't know if it is bad with me to be with them.I went to a party with them because one of their moms had her birthday.I asked them to come to the bathroom with me or they asked me.I used it last and asked them to wait coz I was scared.Then I went out to wash my hands realizing they left me alone downstairs.I was SO SCARED and I had my hands still soapy when I RAN upstairs and saw my other friend, Liesel.She is really nice but my two friends don't like her.Liesel called them byotches. She explained that they ran upstairs so I could be alone and told everybody that they left me. They know how I'm a scaredy-cat.She called them mean and ran for me. Then my two friends lied that they waited for 2 min. and got tired of waiting. Are they true friends and can I depend on them or friends like Liesel?I have to be nice to them because of our moms.
2006-11-19 03:39:14 · 7 answers · asked by boa-myname 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You don't have to be "nice" to them simply because your moms are friends. I think if you talked to your mom about it she would understand and be very proud of you that you don't want the same bad reputation that these other girls are getting because they are mean. It's a reputation you don't want and you will eventually be thought of being just like them...guilty by association. Hang with Liesel and people like her. You don't need to be rude to these other girls. Just make other plans to hang out with other girls when the moms are getting together. They obviously have serious self-esteem issues (that's why they are mean to others, makes them feel better about themselves). You don't have a self-esteem issue. Good for you!!!! You're a smart kid!
2006-11-19 03:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by MegD22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, there's one clear thing: they aren't exactly your type. You're dealing with a "Three's a crowd" situation and you obviously don't fit in with them. So their mums know your mum. And then what? I'm not saying that you should stop being nice to them. I'm just saying that you guys can be budies but not exactly best friends...you know, on the "Hello, Hi, What's up" level Find a couple of new [best] friends. Friends you have a lot in common with, people more like Liesel. Leave the other two alone. They seem to be made for each other or something.
2006-11-19 03:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mad Scientist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, they are not true friends, a friend always care for you, and never does anything that you are not comfortable with. Leslie in the other hand, seems like a nice person, someone who really cares about you. And well it doesn't matter if your mom its cool with the mom of the girls, those are two different stories, you should tell your mom know how this girls are with you, and also tell their mom, although the mom its always going to believe them. Now that i think about it, if you do this , it can bring problems, with your mom and their mom,but HEY don't let that stop you, I know your mom loves you, and she is a nice lady, so tell her what's going on, always trusth your parents.... hope this helps... any question please e-mail me,riveroluis@sbcglobal.net i am always here to help.
2006-11-19 03:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 19:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be nice to them but that doesn't mean you have to be friends. They don't sound very nice to me either. Explain to your mom that these two girls take advantage of you, are not very nice and tend to tease you. Find another friend who you have things in common with. True friends never leave another behind. Just like the movie Lilo and Stitch. Good luck.
2006-11-19 03:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is games children play... you can ignore and move on... let them see it's doesn't bother you... hang with people that care about you and show it... no games and back stabbing allowed... make it know that you think they like playing silly little games... running off leaving someone alone ... how lame is that... what if they were scared. it wouldn't be funny to them... Like I said moveon, ignore it... hang with others... hope this helps...
2006-11-19 04:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that there really not true friends then there not...instinct and wat the heart tells us usually happen for a eason especially if u question urself...[make sure u look at the pros and cons]u dont have to end the friendship but if u feel like dat and confronted them and they seem like there lyin go w/ ur instincts..GOOD LUCK
2006-11-19 03:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋