ok im 16 and ive considered myself bi for about 2 years. but their has always been somthing chewing at the back of my brain...because i fully love men but when it comes to women i dont really see myslelf having a relationship with them....i think their sexy and stuff but i dont think i have the capcity to love them in a relationship. do i sound gay or bi? i know i sound stupid but i just cant come up with an answer. plz help .....10 points to the person who helps the most
2006-11-19 03:20:38 · 18 answers · asked by allen=[\m/] 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well sport,
You are 16 years old, you are in a very confusing time of your life. You are starting to figure out who you are.
OK you like men, you have realized that, now are you comfortable with knowing and accepting that.
Do you like women too? If you do, I think that is great. Look at this way sport, you have the opportunity to enjoy the best of both worlds.
So you do not want a relationship with a woman? That is cool too, but you still respect them and appreciate their beauty.
It does not matter who you love, its being loved and having someone to love you, no matter who they are man or woman.
Be open minded to your feelings, and take things as they come. You are just 16, you have your whole life to figure things out, this is not the time in your life to say right now, I am Gay, gonna stay away from women, or say that I am str8, or bi. It will come to you with time. It took me until the age of 21 to fully figure out who I was even after one marriage.
If you need anything else, just yell back at me.
♂
2006-11-19 05:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by Brad B 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Okay first off you are still young and have time to decide what you want in life. You sound more like gay then anything. I dont mean that in a mean way. I am fully gay and I think girls are attractive and things but I would never do anything with them. You could just be like that. I mean be who you want to be dont conform into what society wants you to be and that might be something that is holding you back I dont know. But hey if you need someone to talk to you can always talk to me. I have been there and done that so I am just working on the rest of my stuff right now. But hey my email is brandenashten@yahoo.com hit me up.
2006-11-19 03:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by brandenbaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Everybody still loves Chris. You are what you are. You may wind up having a relationship with a man or you may wind up having a relationship with a woman. Life is full of surprises. I wind up being friends with someone I hated two years ago. As long as you're happy, then you don't need a label. That's the problem with the world today, everyone and everything needs a label.
2006-11-19 05:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by hpotter4ever2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely at the start, you're actually no longer gay as you're attracted on your female chum and different females. yet that doesn't rule out the potential for an identical intercourse charm. you will possibly desire to be bisexual, yet you're likely only bicurious pondering that's taken 19 years for this to return around and that the seen a relationship with a guy makes you experience extraordinary. to conquer the terror you may desire to stop treating it as a bad element. that's not undesirable in any respect. while you're overjoyed with your female chum and with females in maximum circumstances then stick to her, that's not proper in case you have a fragile sexual charm to adult men. And if for some reason you wreck up along with her then there is an entire new variety of people for relationship opportunities in case you come to a variety to pass with it. only stop treating it as a bad element and notice the positives and you'd be great :)
2016-10-04 03:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find some women sexy, but I no real desire to have sex with them. Because I have not met a woman that I have wanted to have a sexual relationship with, I find it easier to identify myself to others as homosexual but I am probably slightly bisexual.
Check out this site about the Kinsey scale:
http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/research/ak-data.html
Don't try to put yourself in a box with a neat little label, especially at your age. Live your life and figure out on your own what makes you happy.
2006-11-19 04:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Spyder 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be bi, but just with a preference for men. Your preferences can change over time. It's no big deal. Just go with whoever you feel most attracted to at the time, and don't worry about labels.
2006-11-19 04:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by JBoy Wonder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,I know how you feel. Sometimes, you can have a HUGE crush on someone but not picture you with them. It happens.
If you are attracted to women in some way or another, then you are bi. But you can just consider yourself gay since you seem more comfortable in a gay relationship. e-mail me if u want.
svincenzam100@yahoo.com
2006-11-19 03:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Parvati 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey I think Brad B gave you a good answer. Also there is really a lot more to know of the situation, like parents divorced, only child, dad a drunk, ! I wouldn't get to nervous yet. Save yourself for the right one !
2006-11-19 09:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by nicenvt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your confusing "Love" with "Sex". To be bi would mean that you would have no prefrence when it came to having "Sex" with a man or a woman. To prefer to have "Sex" with your same sex would pretty much sinch the fact that you are gay.. Love and a relationship is something all togeather different, it is the emotions you feel when your with someone.
2006-11-19 11:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by gus P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety i think ur str8 up gay because u just said that you cant c ur self in a relashionship or loving a women. ur probally think females r sexy just because sasity wants people to feel dat way. only way to tell fo sho is if you experiment a little more with both sexes...
2006-11-19 03:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋