well, my ex-boyfriend and I were really trying to get on a relationship but he messed up again by getting mad and acting immature. Well, I feel as though he has not realized what he had and still had up until now. I am really fed up with everything that he has done to me and I am up to the point that I don't care. But then there is another small part of me that is scared to lose him forever because I still love him. Is there anything on my behalf that I can do to make him see that he has something good and that he will not find any other girl that will love him as much as I do? Is there something that I can or say that will make him see that? What can I do?????
2006-11-19 03:16:51 · 10 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK...This is so much easier said than done honey. I have been there. BUT if you really want to show him and know for yourself if he loves you back the way you love him, you are just going to have to stop calling him and tell him you are going to step back and not be with him for a while until he can figure out what he wants. If he plays he plays. Suck it up. But the only way to find out what you are wanting to know is to let him go and let him come back to you. IF he comes back he will come back and you will know you both have mutual love for each other, but if he doesn't, then he wasn't worth it and you will find "the one" that loves you the way you deserve to be loved...This is hard to do, but if you really want to know. That is the way to do it. It worked for me in my favor, it was hard but worth it in the end.
2006-11-19 03:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by mysticeyes792006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it depends on how does your bf feel for you?If it is a short time relationship then there isn't any way to make him feel like he needs you.
But if you have done a lot, I mean a lot of things together, then maybe it will be different. maybe he will miss your soft voice, if you have it, maybe he'll miss your noodle soup that you always prepared for him.
What I want to say is that, my bf is avoiding me, not picking up the phone, he wants everything over. But I can't let him go, I want him to make him feel that I am the only girl for him. Men are so cruel, so many things happened between us, and all he can say that "I am sorry". Sorry for what? sorry for loving me?
Just go your life, he will someday realize he had lost, but by that time you'll be with another person, much better than this one. Believe me
2006-11-19 03:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by laneige 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing you can do. Pick yourself up put on your best dress and go out with your girlfriends. Its so hard to do but you need to forget him and move on, there are soooo many better guys in the world.
2006-11-19 13:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by heather 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should just not call him and act like you don't care because when he gets his head stright he will be begging for you again and telling you that he wants you back just play hard to get he'll be all over you non stop like a new born puppy
2006-11-19 03:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by oneluv813 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with oneluv813. Disappear, don't be available anymore. No contact at all. Push him away.
I know it will be hard, but I can assure you that he will be running after you like a puppy.
2006-11-19 03:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by mackenzie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know what u are going tho. i really liked this guy. his name is jake and he hits on like every girl that he sees. what i did waz, i found a guy that i sorta like and we went out. his name is c.j. i still talked to jake but when my bf (c.j.) came around i would frirt with him and some other peolpe that i hung out with. finally jake just got jealous and came to talk to me. he said that he was happy that i still talked to him but he still really liked me. so that is what i did. i would just show him what he is missing out on.
2006-11-19 03:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has not realized it by now, he never will. Move on with your life.
2006-11-19 03:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by shyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can walk out like mine did, but I still dont get her point.
and why hasnt she gotten her crap out of here, its already been 6 months.
2006-11-19 03:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him an electron microscope?
2006-11-19 03:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
walk away.
2006-11-19 03:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋