I thought i met the most wonderful guy of my dreams, but the other nite he couldn't put a condom b/c he was too soft, then when he actually did, we couldn't perform intercourse b/c he became soft again. Is this a medical problem? Or does this mean that he's not interested even though he acts and says he is???
2006-11-19 02:58:45 · 17 answers · asked by ck55 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It could be one of many things, one he is not into you , two he dose have a medical problem, or three this one happens to a lot of guys even though they don't admit to it, he is more then likely thinking about the ups and downs about sex which is taking the emotional feeling away, which makes him go down way to fast. just don't take it to heart, he is more frustrated about this then you!
2006-11-19 03:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very rarely would it be because he is not into you. If he really wasn't into you, he wouldn't have let it get as far as it did (sexually).
There are many reasons this can happen. Stress is a big one. If he is suffering alot of stress (work, financial, family), that can seriously affect his performance, or lack thereof.
It could also be a medical problem. Talk to him, see what's going on in his life. It might be a while since he is most likely completely embarrassed about it. But if it continues, get him to see a professional (medical doctor, psycologst) and try to find the root of the problem.
No matter what you do though, no matter what, is don't ever ever ever think it's because of you. It's hard not to, but I'm sure he will be the first to tell you the same thing.
Good luck.
2006-11-19 03:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do women always think that it's easy for a guy to just get it up when they want sex, Come on try a little foreplay and work yourself up to it. Sex should be enjoyable at any lenght of time, and not just wamb bamb thank you mam ! kissing a guy on the chest area is always a warm up ladies, no pills needed when you got a good lover too. take it slow it's not rush hour, sex is apart of emotions, desire and timing feeling what's right between you two.
2006-11-19 03:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by puppylovetfp.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could have been the combination of things; the condom; the awkwardness of the situation and the pressure to perform. What the hell, if it happens all the time, start to worry or have him see a doctor...but, everybody goes through troubled times, whether sexual or depression or just a day where you have a brain fart. Talk to him and see if anything is bothering him, but don't be insensitive; you may just bring things to a head(excuse the pun) if you push too hard!
2006-11-19 03:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe u sent this question, because that is exactly what happened to me last night. My bf and I had the perfect relationship, one that I dreamed of, then we tried to introduce sex. The first time he was very embarrassed, so we tried it again last night, and the same thing happened. He was devastated, said he couldn't figure it out........here he was with a beautiful woman and that this had never happened before. So please know it does happen to others. For him it's not a medical prob, so if your bf does figure out what it is, please let me know so I can help mine. Email me if u like. Thanks for sharing your story, it made me feel better knowing I am not the only one. :-)
2006-11-19 07:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-31 21:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy was not interested, he would have never attempted to be intimate with you. Stress, a guilty mind, performance anxiety, or a myriad of medical problems could be the culprit. I would suggest that you two sit down and discuss this matter to get to the root of the problem. Otherwise, he will continue to embarrass himself, which will make the situation worse, and you will continue to doubt his true intentions.
2006-11-19 03:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by gee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a medical problem. Next time try to fondle him and a lot of romance to see how he performs thereafter. If the situation is the same then calmly convince him to seek medical advice
2006-11-19 03:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he drunk at the time? If not, he either has medical problems or he's gay.
2006-11-19 03:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that all depends... he might have Erecticle Dysfunction by the sounds of it... try getting a bit kinkyer if you havnt tried it already, then suggest he go to a doctor to see whats up. and if he says no to the doctor, DRAG HIS BUTT DOWN THERE. something could be wrong with his tool.
2006-11-19 03:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by ace098141 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋