=>YOU
=>your family
=>your career
=>Your religion etc...
2006-11-19 02:34:24 · 5 answers · asked by eby 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
"The only requirement for being a master is to act like a master"
2006-11-19 02:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Iulia-Diana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-you: You need to respect and love yourself for what you are. Learn to regonize what skills and talents you have and try to improve them or do something useful with them. Don`t try to be someone else or fit and certain image. You need to appreciate yourself for what you are and be confident in your skills and talents.
-your family: As long as you love your family, that means a lot. Try not to start arguments over stupid things, but at the same time, don`t let your family run your life for you or make choices for you. If they do this, you will probablly end up hating them for it later. You can`t always stick with the family when you know they`re wrong. Don`t just try to be nice and polite all of the time. The families that are happy are the ones that know how to calmly talk and work problems out together. A family should be a place to turn for support and advice, but a loving family will also let you know when you are wrong. You should set aside some time together if possible. You need to learn to work through any problems without arguing or yelling and you need to respect each family member for who he or she is. Also, never let ANYONE walk all over you. That will hurt the respect you have for yourself and it will make you angry with that person. Always stand up for yourself and your beliefs.
-your career: Go with your talents. Everyone is good at something, even if they don`t always realize it. If you are talented at something and you love it, pursue it. Even if you need to take some risks to get there. People who love their career do better in it.
-your religion: Don`t go to town on your religion. If you are very deep into it, thats fine, but never think if people as inferior if they don`t believe the same thing as you. Unfortunately, religion has caused a lot of hate in the world and hate is something that hurts everyone: the one being hated and the one doing the hating. Your religion is not necessarily your best friend`s religion, but don`t let that come in between you. Learn to take an objective point of veiw while discussing religion. Leave your worship for your own time and don`t force it onto anyone else.
Hope it helps.
2006-11-19 10:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an optimist. Being a positive thinker will change our attitude and behavior. Because happiness is a choice and a state of the mind. Happiness is wanting what you have and counting your blessings always. Life is 5 % of what happens to you and 95 % of how you react to it. So success depends on your attitude and frame of mind. This is all in the mind.
2006-11-19 10:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an optimist. Avoid negative or prejudicial influences. Avoid toxic people and relationships. Live life to its fullest. A person who dies with regrets lives a wasted life.
2006-11-19 11:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family comes first, they are the ones you need in support of your life
i'ld say if your into religion then that next
career irons it self out if you got your head screwed on right and you are at peace with yor family and relgion
otherwise your in for a roller coaster of life
2006-11-19 10:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋