i know you guys don't want to hear my problems, but i just want to know if someone out there is having their little issues like i am these days. i have very mean people in my class, and i am constantly being judged by stupid mistakes that i've made in the PAST even though i am nice to people NOW.
2006-11-19 02:05:35 · 6 answers · asked by ipodlady231 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i'm alittle girl! i can't get breast inplants
2006-11-19 02:12:49 · update #1
size matters not
attitude on yourself does
you lack self respect and the willingness to stand up for your self
once the "mean boys" se that they will back off
the problem is you really shouldn't care what they say
bully's etc work on the premise that they always prey on the weak
they never go for the strong
you empower them when you respond to their taunts
the strength you must find is to NEVER respond to them
NEVER given them that power
once they see you do not care about them in any sort of pyhsical or mental way
they will back off and move on to the next person of interest
confidence comes from knowing one self
you cannot be all things to all people
but there is something that you do well
that is what you focus on
that is what you invest your time and energy on to be come good in that field of endevor
you have to rememeber that bullys are insecure people
and they suffer from a flaw and do not want others to see it
so they act out against others to cover there flaws
2006-11-19 02:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, kids can be mean.
Try to get a bit of perspective.
How important are these people to you in the grand scheme of things?
Will you know or interact with them in 12 months time?
Will you know or interact with them in 5 yrs time? 10 yrs time?
Look past these people being mean to you and forgive them now, and find yourself a better life without them.
Go and play a sport, like tennis, or squash or soccer or netball or go and join a musical group, like a community band ( you might need to learn to play an instrument first) depending on what country you are in there are various groups for kids to get together and socialise. Often many of the local churches will have some sort of adolescent groups and in those situations you will find both enjoyment and education.
2006-11-19 10:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by dd_lee123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand that these are the same people who keep making you feel that you're not good enough, everyday. I think its about time you see for yourself that they're really not worth all these heartaches. People make mistakes, and we move on. Ignore these people, feel good about yourself. Smile. Bring out the best in you. You need to appreciate yourself. It's a long way to go, but you need to take it one step at a time. You'll always meet cruel people, and you have to defeat them in their own game. You walk into that classroom, chin up and smile. You're the only one responsible for your own misery and happiness. Do yourself a favor and stop feeling sorry for yourself. These people, they're just not worth it, trust me. Stop caring about what they say, when everyday they make you miserable. That's what I just dont get. Just go do it girl.
2006-11-19 10:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mint 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We all make mistakes.
No one walks on water!
May I tell you this.
Always believe in yourself!
Try to learn to become the best that you are.
Never give up!
Respect Everyone!
Have as much fun as you can!
2006-11-19 10:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold your head up high! Nothing exudes confidence like a high head (it makes people Have to look up to you)!
2006-11-19 10:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite them over your house and show them the sweetheart you are ⥠melissa hope this helps
2006-11-19 10:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋