We were livin together, and then he decided that he wasn't ready for a relationship. He is 21 and I'm 23. after he moved out a few months later I found out I was pregnant. towards the end of the pregnancy he started comin around and wanting to hangout, and try to work things out.He was at the hospital for the delivery, and stayed throughout the whole thing. And has been comin around every day, and calling to check on us. He's a great guy, but I am scared that he's just gonna change his mind again and leave, but now we have a kid together, so i am even more worried about lettin him get close again.
2006-11-19 01:57:43 · 8 answers · asked by Rach 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tread carefully know its not just u hell hurt if he decides once again that hes not ready u have a kid know so think about the baby and i guess u could give him points for being in the delivery room with u.
2006-11-19 02:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him another chance. From what you said, being with you thru the delivery and all, it seems genuine. Let him back into your life. After all there is no guarantees, but you will have regets the rest of you life if you shut him out, because you never gave him a chance. If it ends, so what? At least you gave 100% and was the better person for taking him back, and thats what matters
2006-11-19 10:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rick B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he is ready for a family.put a ring on your finger.maybe this child is a new toy for a while.there better be more than him being the father a reason to be back.
2006-11-19 10:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by robert c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, an "ex" is usually an "ex" for a reason. A zebra rarely changes its stripes.
2006-11-19 10:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kathleen L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get back together, i mean yall got a kid now he needs to get that in his head.
2006-11-19 10:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have think and see if you think he has changed sincerly.
2006-11-19 10:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh,you have kid???man!!!if he is not worth it,than,no,you will find a boyfriend who will not leev you,n' who will help you raise that kid.
2006-11-19 10:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by rapp_girrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you could give it a try.
GOOD LUCK AND HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!!
2006-11-19 09:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋