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2006-11-19 01:42:58 · 26 answers · asked by misery 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
it depends on who i'm arguing with:
if the relationship is valuable enough i always apologize first, because even if i know that he or she is in the wrong i can't risk losing that friend.
however, if after i apologize he or she doesn't apologize back then i know that it's a lost cause and i just walk away.
if the friend isn't a very good one and i don't want her to become a very good one then i don't apologize first, unless i was the one who started it all.
if the friend isn't a very good one but he or she could become my soulmate then i evaluate the situation and decide....
trivial things shouldn't get in the way of any friendship, so if i'm not prepared to apologize for something small, i at least talk things through with that friend.
sometimes i deliberatly cause fights because i can't think of a better way to tell someone that i don't want to be friends with them anymore. i know that i shouldn't though.....
2006-11-19 01:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate.smartie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the arguement is about and who it is with, and also if I feel I am right then no I don't think I should be the one to apologize first.
2006-11-19 10:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because I'm usually right. But the rare times I'm not, I might apologize first lol.
2006-11-19 09:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by High? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if I was write or not. I do not hold grudges and I get over arguements easy. Most of the time, I would have to say yes
2006-11-19 09:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, my husband apologizes even if he is not wrong.
If I am not wrong, it is hard for me to apologize first. The reason why is because I feel that if I apologize first what has the other person learned????????????
Are they ever going to admit their wrong?????
Are they ever going to take responsibility for their actions??????????????????????????????
Sometimes when we do not own up to our wrong we pass this on to our children, and we wonder why they are so disrespectful,we are teaching them to be this way!!!!
But,of course, God wants us to turn the other cheek.
I need prayer in this area because I am not there yet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-19 09:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by purpleone726 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my husband I always am. He never apologizes first. I think he knows I will always be the one to cave. I'm such a wienie.
2006-11-19 09:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by jmk_jenmarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be that person, now I never argue with a loved one, it just isn't worth it.
2006-11-19 09:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, often even if i am in the right i am still honestly sorry the disagreement happened, and i don't want it to become bigger than need be
2006-11-19 09:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by falling leaves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how right or wrong I thought I was.
2006-11-19 09:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by Hellsdiner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time I find a way not to argue lol
2006-11-19 09:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by trish the dish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋