I cannot stop fantasising about women. I have been with women before this relationship, but it was never anything very serious. Now I am going crazy. I asked my b/f for a threesome and he said no....What do I do?
2006-11-19 01:40:17 · 11 answers · asked by Audee 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ok, atlease once in a girls life they will think about being with a female its a part of life but anyways, u should just continue with your relationship unless your urges get too strong to the point where u can resist them then ask your boyfriend can u try it and if he say yes and u like then u know u bisexual
2006-11-19 02:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by ki-ki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You speak of your desire for women, what, exactly are your feeling towards men, particularly your boyfriend? If you have been together for 4 years something must be working, that beats most marriages in the U.S. That you wanted a threesome rather than an affair show that he matters to you, so it all boils down to one question, do you love him enough to forgo women and stay with him? If not, and he isn't comfortable sharing you with a woman, then, like it or not, you are the wrong woman for this guy. For his sake, you should leave him and let him find a woman who can appreciate and be happy with him alone, he deserves that. As for you, you sound bi rather than gay, if you truly want one of each then that is what you should bend heart and mind to achieve. I knew a committed triple in California, two bi women and a man, whose relationship has been going strong for over 20 years. Contrary to Biblical injunction, a relationship, or even a marriage, no more has to be just two people than it has to be a man and a woman. It's your life, so it harm none do what you will with it.
2006-11-19 05:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 05:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be blunt, I think you need to either s--t or get off the pot. Your boyfriend is a human being with feelings. He deserves honesty, and he deserves to know whether or not, by being with you, he's with a woman who knows and appreciates the kind of love that a special man can give her.
If the answer to that last question is no, then you have no right to make him waste any more of his life by being with a woman who's leaning toward homosexuality.
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2006-11-19 01:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend is Bi .I don't have any problem with that.I think your boyfriend is insecure.As for you, there is nothing wrong with your feelings. That's the way you are.
Woody Alan once said: being BI doubles your chances for a date.
Oh girl, don't fret.Be happy and enjoy
2006-11-19 09:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pretty sure your gay......maybe you should call it quits with the b/f until you decide what you really want. You know your not being fair to your man when you heart could be somewhere else!
Good Luck to you...oh... and congrats for being honest with your feelings!!
2006-11-19 01:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you really need some time away from him to see what you want, i think you know what it is you want but maybe for whatever reason don't want to admit it, if you wanted women then and the feeling is still there now, maybe you are bi-sexual
2006-11-19 02:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by lilmamacita125 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break-up with the boyfriend and see how it goes.
2006-11-19 01:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by brock 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least your boyfriend is blessing the posies.
2006-11-19 01:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
what ever makes you happy
2006-11-19 16:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋