my ex and i broke up a while ago. although he loves me. he says his heart is with me and always will be but his head at the mo isnt .
ed if u love some one let them go if they come back there always ures. i have been a cow to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things. which i regret totally.
he says he needs to find out who he is , he sed his heart is with me but his head isnt and circumstances mean we cant be together at mo becaus at the momnet he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end? some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thta i love him and know it can be good
i asked if he wnats me to move on , and he sed no he doenst but he cant be with me at this time. the thing is he says my heart is always with him but his head not with me
dont say move on cause we still love each other
2006-11-19 01:35:27 · 2 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He has already moved on. Whether you were a cow or not doesn't change the situation. He is not in sync with you and you should not wait around, This is a stall tactic.. You don't know if what he is telling you is the truth???? He could be with lots of other people.... Don't be a fool.. You both need to break away and do some growing.... You have these experiences in life, so you know, what not to do the next time...
You should not move in , this would be ludicrous, given the situation.
You can give a piece of your heart over and over again in your lifetime and always have feelings there for someone of the past., but that shouldn't stop you from moving on.
You need to get a grip with your anger and deal with it professionally. He doesn't need to forgive you, he needs to get on with his life and you do the same.
There is too much baggage to work. There will be resentments and angry words.
This might be the perfect time for you to do some work on your self, Look within and find the good things about you and make them work... And work on the bad things and get rid of them...
Love is not as simple as you think. There are many ways to love one another. What you showed him after the break-up was not love. It was anger, jealousy, hurt, possessiveness. This perhaps is not the right time for you to be with anyone.
You need to work on you...
I truly don't think he will come back for more of your love.. I am sorry, but, you can forgive, but, you never forget....
2006-11-19 01:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love each other then get back together
2006-11-19 01:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by AussieGal777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋