Can u stand dat ur partner used to sleep wid smone else???
2006-11-19 01:32:51 · 30 answers · asked by Ruby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Spelling is easy with a spell check.
Anyway....I would be upset that he lied to me. I would not be angry that he had prior sexual relations, just angry that he lied about it. I mean what was the point in lying about that? If anything I would then be very concerned about STDs. If one is going to be so horrible as to lie about ones sex life to the person that they love, one can very easily lie about STDs they may or may not have.
2006-11-19 01:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by sandeep k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a virgin? Someone in the relationship needs to have had some experience. There's nothing so sad as two virgins trying to figure out how to please each other and not knowing what to do. True, it all started out that way but the person you love is the sum of all that they went through to become the person you fell in love with or that you wanted to marry in the first place. So their past relationships inform their character and make them the person that you love. Jealousy is just a kneejerk reaction that makes no sense. We all have a past and no one is perfect. Live, laugh, love, and enjoy.
2006-11-19 01:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by cmpbush 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should not be a problem. You married the person not the body. If its a big thing for you and you have not discussed it before being getting married, you are being unfair to your partner. If your thought will not pass, it will ruin your marriage that your partner has no means to correct. If you truly your partner, you must love with no limitations. That is what love truly meant. Love will make the world a beautiful place to live in. Hoping for the best.
2016-03-29 01:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that using this as a reason to start believing he doesn't really love you is a woman thing that i will never understand, women constantly think that their husband is unfaithful lies , looks at other women and that they aren't good enough for him. Women bring themselves down because they are insecure with themselves. Were you a virgin when you married did he say he was. Having a partner that is a little bit experienced is a good thing but to add the baggage on him that he should have saved himself for you is a bit much.
2006-11-19 01:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by cctucker75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First. Spell check, what are you saying? Second, I sure as hell hope she slept with other people. An experienced partner is a lot more fun than a someone who doesn't know what they are doing. And if you marry someone, I hope you had already slept together because if you aren't sexually compatable, divorce is a much bigger mess than wondering about any previous partners.
2006-11-19 01:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there still virgins left worth dating to find out if they are or not ? If We all went back 30 years, I would say yes there are virgins, but geewiss I don't know now except to think If I did marry one and found out she wasn't then I would have to think (a) she's a liar (b) she had me fooled into thinking so (C) What is a virgin now days .
2006-11-19 01:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by puppylovetfp.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because i love him and its better if he has experience i love experienced men that know what they r doing and where to put their hands..
now about the reactions, depends on the peson, there are people that were raised with the idea that they should marry still virgin and there are people that dont care wether u r a virgin or not..
but if ur man and u were raised with the idea of marrying being virgins theres going to be big trouble if one of u isnt virgin...
2006-11-19 01:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sus-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't expect to be the first, especially if you marry late(26 etc) By the time you marry you have to have dated at least 2 ppl and who knows and if he/she is not a virgin then they have experiance lol) u could take it as a compliment, he was with someone else but he picked you to marry i guess it could bother me a bit, cuz i would be trying to be better the the previous partner was^_^
2006-11-19 01:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am presuming the partner is a female. in which case, the hymen could have split due to exercise or bike riding, not necessarily sex. if the partner was a male, then it was expected as he cannot remain a virgin till age 0f 26.
2006-11-19 03:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by sid s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh... A virgin is an endangered species these days. He or she is with you now. Put his/her past behind you. Enjoy your marriage. Cherish that person and don't take him or her for granted. I wish I was as lucky as you. You actually found someone. In my case, I just keep thinking about how many times I got burned. Haha...
2006-11-19 01:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by jeff c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋