pregnancy help me out please?

Question

i normally take contraceptives but we were trying to conceive
the last time i has sex was on the 3rd october
that was the same night me and my fiance broke up.
it was a nasty break up and we want nothing to do with each other.
but i think i'm pregannt.
my period wont come it was due from the 14th last month.
what is the name of the pill i can take inorder for me to aboard (kill)the child.

and yes it is too late to take the morning after pill. so any other answers would be apreciated.
yes i'll be going to the doctor on tuesday also

thanks in advance

Answer 1

I think you owe it to your ex-fiance' to let him know that he could be a father. Even if he wants nothing to do with the situation, he has the right to know. (I admit I'm curious to know how you two went from the loving act of sex to breaking up and not wanting to see each other ever again in one night).

I'm not sure what the name of the pill is. If you're really serious about having an abortion, then you might as well go to a clinic and get it done properly. They'll offer you counselling before it's done just to make sure that you know what you're doing, and you can discuss any issues you may have then. You need to make sure that before you do it, there is absolutely not possible chance for reconciliation between you and your fiance, and that this is the step you want to take. Because it will affect you emotionally and there's no going back.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 2

Hi,
Abortion is never th answer. It seems like an easy out but in the end will leave you with heartache and sorrow. The guilt you will feel is like none other. If you feel like you cannot raise the child, I would strongly advise putting the child up for adoption. There are many couples that would love to have a child given the chance. Prayers for you!

Answer 3

I dont understand why you would want to abort the baby. Didnt you say you were trying to concieve. If you have managed to do that shouldnt you be happy? If you are pregnant its not the childs fault that you and your fiancee had a falling out. If you wanted this baby with him why dont you want it without him? That just doesnt make sense. Just have the baby either give it up for adoption or think next time about who you are with and use a condom and BC until you are sure you want this person as the childs father.

Answer 4

My heart goes out to you...I've been in the same position. I chose to have the baby anyway and it was the best decision I've ever made. He'll be five in a few weeks and everyday I am grateful that I chose to have him. But what you decide should be what is best for you. Please, whatever you decide, see a medical professional. Planned Parenthood is a wonderful resource that can examine all of your options with you. There can be a number of complications with any method of abortion, pill or otherwise, so please make sure that your care is overseen by a doctor. Good luck with your decision....and remember to take care of yourself!!

Answer 5

Wait till you see the doctor, you may be stressed, and if you want to get an Abortion then you ahve to go to a clinic to get that pill. Sorry to hear about you and your fiance. Hope everythign else works out for you.

Answer 6

Don't kill the baby. Give it up for adoption. But if you have to abort it...don't use a pill...go to Planned Parenthood and have the abortion done. But get some counseling first please.

Answer 7

Please don't kill the baby :( its not the babies fault...I hope you reconsider.... I understand abortion because I have had one and I can guarantee you that you will regret it and at that point it will be too late..I regret my decision everyday and it happened almost 20 years ago....Please , Please don't do it...