i dont believe that there is ever only bad in anyones life,, but yes sometimes the bad things that happen make us not able to be aware of the good, since we are overwhelmed,,,,, even so, most anyone can find something good, that they personally feel is good, if they look , you just sometimes have to knock the bad out of the way, to get a peek
2006-11-19 01:24:21
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answered by dlin333 7
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If only there is a right attitude, people who have only "bad" are the most fortunate ones ! It keeps their awareness sharp, output peak, and experience at the possible richest !
To quote.....
***Very interesting story which makes a lot of sense for us all***
"The Japanese have always loved fresh fish. But the waters close to Japan Have not held many fish for decades. So to feed the Japanese population, Fishing boats got bigger and went farther than ever.
The farther the fishermen went, the longer it took to bring in the
fish.IfThe return trip took more than a few days, the fish were not
fresh. The Japanese did not like the taste. To solve this problem, fishing companies Installed freezers on their boats. They would catch the fish and freeze Them at sea. Freezers allowed the boats to go farther and stay longer.
However, the Japanese could taste the difference between fresh and frozen And they did not like frozen fish. The frozen fish brought a lower price.SoFishing companies installed fish tanks. They would catch the fish and stuff Them in the tanks, fin to fin. After a little thrashing around, the fish Stopped moving. They were tired and dull, but alive. Unfortunately,the Japanese could still taste the difference. Because the fish did not move For
days, they lost their fresh-fish taste. The Japanese preferred the Lively taste of fresh fish, not sluggish fish.
So how did Japanese fishing companies solve this problem?
How do they get fresh-tasting fish to Japan?
To keep the fish tasting fresh, the Japanese fishing companies still put The fish in the tanks. But now they add a small shark to each tank. The Shark eats a few fish, but most of the fish arrive in a very lively state.
The fish are challenged.
As soon as you reach your goals, such as earning good money, getting a Good position, starting a successful company, paying off your debts or Whatever,you might lose your passion. You don't need to work so hard so you Relax.
Like the Japanese fish problem, the best solution is simple. It Was observed by L. Ron Hubbard in the early 1950's. "Man thrives, oddly Enough, only in the presence of a challenging environment."
The Benefits of a Challenge
The more intelligent, persistent and competent you are, the more you enjoy a good problem. If your challenges are the correct size, and if you are steadily conquering those challenges, you are happy. You think of your challenges and get energized. You are excited to try new solutions. You have fun. You are alive!
Recommendations :
Instead of avoiding challenges, jump into them. Beat the heck out of them.
Enjoy the game. If your challenges are too large or too numerous, do not give up. Failing makes you tired. Instead, reorganize. Find more determination, more knowledge, more help.
Don't create success and lie in it. You have resources, skills and abilities to make a difference. Put a shark in your tank and see how far you can really go!
"WISHES FOR A NICE AND FRUITFUL WORKING DAY"
Life is not about how fast you run,
or how high you climb,
but how well you bounce.
'Make Your Own Way'
2006-11-19 01:46:54
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answered by Spiritualseeker 7
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Living FOR is different from Living. Whether you like it or not you live. You have no choice. Like birth. Like breathing. Like heartbeat. You live.
In the process of living you can decide what to live for. Just eat, sleep, have fun. Then everything you do will be good. enjoyable. The moment you decide to live for something else, which depends upon others or affects others you have to accept both good and bad that will come with it. You have to own up responsibility for both.
Remember what you are calling bad are only those that you didnot want to happen to you. Then challenge them. act on them. Donot run away from living or life.
2006-11-19 01:53:29
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answered by YD 5
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Unfortunately, bad things do happen in life, but they are there too help us learn and make us stronger. You will find many good things happen in life as well and it does balance out eventually. The best attitude is to be determined not to be beaten and never give up, no matter how hard things may be. Things will eventually turn around for the better.
2006-11-19 01:25:11
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answered by Anonymous
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See, you are thinking like I do 99% of the time!! I know how you feel, but even though there is nothing good in your life and things just seem to have no light....there is ALWAYS a cellar beneath you. Things can always get sooo much worse than they are now. In order to trick our minds of this mind-set we have to start thinking positive and look for the good things instead of always picking out the negative things....I should take my own advice! God put you on this earth for a very special and devine purpose, and when it feels like you are at the end of your road just cry to him and he will lead you where you are supposed to go and do what you are supposed to do in your life. His purpose for you will not only ful-fill your life but bring the desires of your heart and soul to pass! And that my friend, is something to be AWESOMELY EXCITED over!! Good Luck and I hope this helps!!
2006-11-19 01:22:46
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answered by Tiffany 4
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the point of living in this case is 2 turn around that life and correct it so that u can accomplish good stuff in it...... or the point of living a bad life is 2 suffer teh consequences of your bad decisions
2006-11-19 05:32:29
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answered by ♦GashlycrumbTiny♦ 5
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We create our own circumstances in life. Read the little book "as a man thinketh" by James Allen. Then seek to turn your life an will over to God. The essence of your being is unconditional love. enter your heart and find "that" an you will allways be happy no matter your circumstances.
2006-11-19 05:18:22
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answered by Weldon 5
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Life is a gift. Your life is full of good things. If you don't believe me, try this:
- Think of anything of your self: Health, mind, money, work, family,,, any anything.
- Then, think of each of them and estimate where you are, and think deepely about someone else who is in a worse position, then in people with much much worse situation.
- Then you would start feeling good about most items in your life that many many other people don't have.
For example if you are sick, think of people who are more sick, think of paralyzed people or cancer people or permanent backache people, then start feeling how healthy you are (no one is 100% or 0% healthy), then start feeling grateful to God and people around you, who may be a reason for this.
And do that in all other items in your life, just then, you will realize how lucky you are, and you will start feeling the good things in life and enjoying it.
I hope that helped you!
2006-11-19 01:37:26
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answered by Tamer A 2
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there is nothing as bad in life than thinking so.
hence stop thinking as bad.
life is a stream; so goes the living.
hence there is every point of living till natural death.
2006-11-19 05:14:23
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answered by prince47 7
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Since we are born, the only thing one could do is live. Since we're alive and living, we may as well try to make a difference. It depends on what one wants to do in order to make that difference.
2006-11-19 01:22:04
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answered by J.D.S. 4
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