HELP! I dont know what to do?

Question

I've been talking to this guy that i work with for about couple mths we exchanged # when he started having problems with his long distance girlfriend or ex in this case (where in fla and shes in CA) he had a lot of issues and i was there for him i always liked him as more than a friend but i stuck by him while is issues with her and the brake up came after that i drifted away.couple weeks later here he comes again in my life and now were a lil bit more than friends, but were not dating but he claims me as his (hes very jelous) but i asked him if we can make us official and he said (and i agree) that its not good because we work together and it my bring problems to our work though we work in the same department just in different areas. Sometimes I do want to make it official and be his girl but he seems shady sometimes,when ask him to go out me him and my daughter he has somethn to do but if tis for sex or just 2 go just me and us hes available i dont kno what to think or do.... HELP!

Answer 1

Honestly, you already know the answer!!!!!
Do not let your daughter see you being treated badly by anyone.

Teach her to love herself and make sure that she looks for respect from others, especially men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

It seems that he's made it clear that he doesn't think there's enough room for him and your daughter at the same time, and he doesn't want people to know that he's seeing you. I'd say that's pretty simple to figure out.

Answer 3

He is just out for sex not a real relationship.

Answer 4

Please, please have enough respect for yourself (and your daughter) to NOT have a relationship with this guy. He is not good for you. If he seems shady, he probably is shady. Get away fast.