ive been with him 7months but now its for the best if we break up i still love him but its for the best so how?
2006-11-19 01:03:43 · 18 answers · asked by bobz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you still love him then why are you planning to break up with him??????????????????????????????
2006-11-19 01:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you know things won't work you need to do it quickly. Don't hang around looking or waiting for the right moment, you will only end up making it harder for yourself. Sit him down and talk to him. Explain to him exactly how you feel and why, BE HONEST!!
2006-11-19 09:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sahara H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are with him be distant. when he asks you something don't answer the first time. when he asks what's wrong say "nothing". if he makes a minor mistake, blow it out of proportion. and last but not least tell him you love him but not that way, you love him more like a sibling.
take a few weeks to do it.
2006-11-19 09:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some jelly belly jelly beans that will soak up his sorrows but apart from that juts act like ur the victim as well always works ;)
2006-11-19 09:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by Spud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to him, gently, why it's for the best. Do not say 'we need to talk' - you will make him all defensive.
Be as nice as you can be, don't rake over old issues, be firm and don't take all day!
Wishing you all the best, xxx.
2006-11-19 09:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by rainbowarrior73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain that things aint working out and you dont see a future together and that you dont want to hurt him but you have to be straight with him. I would leave out the "I love you but..." good luck
2006-11-19 09:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by skin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is it for the best if you still love him?
2006-11-19 09:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if its gone off the boil,just tell him he probably feels the same as you do,so your worry may come as relief to the guy
2006-11-19 09:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as either you or him not single, so if it is the best for both of you, tell him, before you or him regret it.
2006-11-19 09:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by Lilu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him down gently and let him say what he says to get his feelings off his chest.
2006-11-19 09:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by Kyle B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gently, directly and unequivocally
2006-11-19 09:11:19 · answer #11 · answered by The Guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋