my ex but still loves me? then y the time wrong?
Exes ever forgive or want back?
my ex and i broke up quite a while ago. although i think he loves me well he says his heart is with me.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there awlays ures. i have been a ***** to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things. ehich i regret totally.
he says he needs to find out who he is , he sed his heart is with me but his head isnt and circumstances mean we cant be together at mo becaus at the monet he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end? some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thta i love him and know it can be good
i asked if he wnats me to move on , and he sed no he doenst but he cant be with me at this time. the thing is he says my heart is always with him but his head not with me
2006-11-19 00:40:13 · 5 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we are not divorcees and why would he string along? hes not a bastard
2006-11-19 00:53:56 · update #1
Forgive & Forget.
If he really wants to get together, he would forget about it.
Love conquers all, remember?
2006-11-19 00:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Bl00die 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on,honey,move on. Most divorces there are hard feelings and people do things that they wish they had not done. You never forget when someone hurts you, but you forgive and do not throw it in their faces. I am sure that he done many things to hurt you while you wre going thru the divorce, if you can forgive why cant he? Because he wants to use that as a reason to string you along. He wants his cake and wants to eat it too. There are other men. Go for it. You might find that you do not want him back after you have dated for a while.
2006-11-19 00:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by bettyswestbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his head is not with you, so how come he said his heart is with you? I call that contradicting. In other words, he is thinking rationally and feels that the both of you may not be suitable for each other.
I don't know how he's feeling but with your threats I guess he's afraid of you in a way. You tortured him metally with your threats and he's not sure if it's worth the effort getting back with you.
He may forget the bad stuff but it doesn't mean that he will forgive you. Maybe it's time for you to let go and find yourself instead of hanging on to him.
Don't cling to him and find out later that he doesn't like clingy girlfriends. Be a little more independant and change yourself. Maybe the two of you may get back later in life, you won't know.
2006-11-19 00:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by iceybell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like an excuse and he is being extremely selfish to let you think there might be a chance at getting back together....i think its a line he is feeding you.......sometimes men are such chickens....dump his ***......you can do better....never settle because the little problems only get bigger......move on hun....good luck.
2006-11-19 01:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jade Emerald 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move ON, He is wasteing your time. Go out and find someone. To much drama. Move on
2006-11-19 00:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by Can Do 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋