I have this man in mind who i think loves me but hide his feeling for some reason. Sometimes, when we meet he keeps calling me with nick names that is dear to me. He tried to send messages by the way he look at me. He kept coming to places where i go e.t.c. But when i confront him, if he loves me or not, all he could say was, "I don't to be the asker, i don't want to say yes or no, I just want you to convience me or i will" then he kept on telling me about his life, what matters to him, the mistakes he has commited e.t.c......and all i said to him was that he does not love me and to better leave it that way because it all look business like to me. my question is: leaving what he have said as it is....now i have waited for so long for him to call me and say something but...he never say anything and i have always these feeling that he still loves me. Is this possible that he loves me?
2006-11-19 00:26:15 · 10 answers · asked by yod 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Try to stay away from him for a while and see what happens. Just because you think he is trying to send you messages by the way he looks at you doesn't mean it is so. I kind of think you're reading too much into this. To me, he doesn't sound serious about you.
2006-11-19 00:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a man's perspective, he's a weinie with no back bone. It sounds like to me (a man) he's interested in a relationship but not a commitment. From my observations most men that approach a relationship with that attitude are never ready for a commitment. Which is dumb, I think. I thought that's what relationships were all about, commitment. Anyway, I'm getting off subject. I'd say, as advice, he ultimately doesn't have the right kind of love for you. Leave him be until he decides to be more serious about it (if he ever does) and asks that question that he won't seem to ask.
2006-11-19 08:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Prince Janus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have asked him point blank if he loves you and he didn't say Yes I Love you, I guess that means he doesn't. If he did and just wasn't ready to say it he would of answer you something like this... I am really fond of you and like you alot but I'm just not ready to say those three little words. Since he doesn't seem to even hint at his feelings leading in the LOVE direction., Stop waiting on him and go out and meet someone who deserves your love and attention. Sometimes all THEY need is to see you with someone else to open their eyes to what they are about to lose. Think about it.
2006-11-19 08:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may love you to the extent that he can love, which appears to be less than you need.
I think you should forget him as a love interest and tell him you will be happy to be just friends with him.
Go out and share many happy times with your friends and wait to meet the man who is waiting for you somewhere right now, who will love you like you can't imagine !
2006-11-19 08:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by a_phantoms_rose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men work on emotional platforms. This means that he could either feel the lacking need to fulfill platform 'mistress' or platform 'Big Brother'. and a man cannot make a decision as to which platform he wants to belong on. This makes him emotionally unstable. This is especially true for married men with unsuccessful marraiges. It can also apply to single men who have had trouble with a relationship before.
I suggest you forget him and move on to greener pasteurs.
2006-11-19 08:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by catcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this man is in your head it may be of some past places. He may be someone like your old spouse or the person you used to be dating. That person may also still like you and is trying to contact you. Another chance is that he may be you or another side of your feelings that your mind has created with dreams, thoughts, etc. My answer would be to confront the man and interrupt him in his talk and try to explain your feelings for him and how he may help of leaving or staying. (I'm not a psycologist, what I said may not be true)
2006-11-19 08:44:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ah.. the poor guy is married and thus is in his first out-of-wedlock affair and he just does not know how to proceed.. Unless you want to get involved with such an affair, you should POLITELY.... drop him But.. BE CORDIAL in the cooling off period
2006-11-19 08:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is messing with your head. Forget about him and find someone worthwhile!
2006-11-19 08:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very bad because you can't say you love him, either.
2006-11-19 08:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he's head-tripping you. don't waste anymore time waiting for him.
2006-11-19 08:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by pirate00girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋