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Everybody in my family is trying to change me. T.T It's getting annoying; I am fine that way I am. They just think because I am quiet that I do not talk much. That's wrong.

2006-11-19 00:13:30 · 13 answers · asked by ? 5 in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

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my babe has also tried 2 change my personality.. he said im 2 soft spoken & weak.. that i cnt speak & defend myself

i told him i dnt wana change coz this is me -- d real me!
however, due 2 tough tyms & experience, i've learned 2 change fr my own..

now im tougher & nobody can ever put me down when i knw im right...

d change shld come w/in u, not coz some ppl dictate u 2 change..

2006-11-19 00:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0 0

Thank them for their concern and advice, and then - be yourself! If you don't, who will? :-))

If you are quiet, good for you! It probably means you are a thinker, and a good listener. Both rare enough in today's world.

You have said the most important thing yourself: "I am fine the way that I am." You have learned to look to yourself for approval; one of life's most important lessons.

Sounds to me, too, that you are fine the way that you are.

What I think about people who try to change me is this: They are in for a long, tough, ultimately fruitless endeavor! :-))

2006-11-19 08:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by zen 7 · 1 0

I'm quiet too, and at one time my family thought I needed therapy or something, and I'm like "Okaaay, you guys can leave me alone, I'm fine".... It's annoying, isn't it? I just keep to myself, that's my personality. Nobody's tried to change my appearance, though...

2006-11-19 08:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Family tends to do that & I am sure they mean well too,but just remind them you are happy with who you are & intend on staying that way..Sometimes those who try to change us need to look in the mirror as well..=) good luck sweetie...=)

2006-11-19 08:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by legendary~cool 7 · 0 0

Well, tell them to back off or something. Sure, maybe they're looking out for the best of you, but if you like yourself now, they probably shouldn't be trying to change you!
:-)

2006-11-19 08:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by misery 7 · 0 0

I agree with you....being quiet doesn't mean you are not happy, or at least satisfied with your life.
Not everyone is the same, and your family has to respect that, IMHO.

2006-11-19 08:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Joshua 5 · 1 0

People can try, but they will only fail. No one in the world can change you unless you let them change you. From my own personal experience...i just told them to kiss my ***...no one is changing me...accept me as I am..take it or leave it.

2006-11-19 08:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

shallow for thinking the outside is more important for who i am on the inside

2006-11-19 10:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

my family tried to change me too. screw that! i don't let anyone change me, even if it's my girlfriend or best friend.

2006-11-19 08:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

they dissatisfied with the way you look, no i mean they think you can look so much better than you are now.

2006-11-19 08:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by nins 2 · 0 0

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