My friend is bi and she likes my other friend who doesn't like her back.
I'm kind of stuck in the middle and i'm trying to help them both figure
out what they really want.
I'm doing my hardest not to make it seem like a big deal but,
the my friend takes things personally with the girl she likes
and she wants me there to help sort things out.
Any advice?
No stupid answers please.
I am dead serious..
If you're going to try and be funny,
at least be sure that i'm going to laugh..
or i'll refer you.
Sorry and thank you.
2006-11-18 23:59:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I made a typo if you noticed..there's no need to talk to me about grammar errors. I HATE GRAMMAR!
2006-11-19 00:01:28 · update #1
your friend is bi... your other friend doesn't like her back... I'd probably say major high school drama... My advice is to lay off.. and run away from the middle cause you'll be the one getting hurt big time...
2006-11-19 00:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Paolo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a hard place, you have found yourself to be. It would be difficult enough if it were an opposite sex attraction that your first friend has for the second. How would you handle it if that were the case? Do you also choose the bi lifestyle? Do you have a true understanding of it because you live it? I don't, so I treat my bi/gay friends as I would heterosexual friends. I would ask both not to ask more of me than I could give.
It is important to tell the first friend she puts you in a difficult place with the other friend. Ask her to respect your choices as you respect hers.
Good luck. I wish you didn't have such things to deal with in highschool.
2006-11-19 00:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i would ask your friend to take you out of the situation. Sit them both down and explain that this situation is causing you hardship. If sitting them down together is not possible try one at a time. Explain to your bi friend that it is not your place to set her up and that you do not believe that your other friend is interested. Tell her she needs to ask the other girl involved herself and take you out of it because it hurting your friendship the pressure she is putting on you
2006-11-19 00:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by mommyblues78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if ur friend is bi and likes ur other friend well i would have to say stay out of it or tell ur friend that she needs to keep looking for that right girl or guy. and is ur other friend bi also or no? i mean i was bi at one point i know how this girl feels just have her email if she can and ill help my email is innocent_n_cute2005@yahoo.com, yummie1989 (that is my aim s/n), or baby_chicks_92@hotmail.com
2006-11-19 00:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by mistory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're stuck in the middle. This happens to me all the time. tell your bi friend that your other friend isn't bi or gay.
2006-11-19 00:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by dramateen23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved in any of it. If things don't work out, the bi will blame you.
2006-11-19 00:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went thru the exact same thing but we were in our freshman years of college they were seniors let them figure it out because if not you will end up losing one or the other it never fails tell them you enjoy their friendships which is why you cant get in the middle
2006-11-19 00:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by SMILING EYES 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋