why are women so sensitive?

Question

she weeps and screams where as men dont bother,
how can women hide their emotions when necessary?

Answer 1

I would say that women are naturally meant to be nurturers because we were made with one of our major tasks in life, family and society, to have children and raise them, which requires a lot of sensitivity to understand what a child needs especially during the period before they know how to talk. Children can also be very sensative because they are new to this world and without a sensative mother to be understanding through her sensativities to their needs to care for them, it would be harmful to the emotional developement.
I would not say all women are sensitive though, because they aren't. But those who aren't as sensative, usually aren't as sensative to children's needs or others needs in general and are either less likely to want children or be as good at figuring out what their children want and need. These same women would be less inclined to work in service positions helping people unless they had no other options. Then they would not do as well at those kinds of jobs as a woman that is sensative.
Men can also be sensative but just usually they aren't as sensative as women because they have a different role in the family. They also need sensativity, because they have to have sensativity to others feelings that they deal with on a daily basis and they also assist in raising children but still to this day most of the raising of children is still done by the mother even if she is a working mother.
At the risk that you are not a Christian, I will say it is all a part of God's design for the family and the father an mother have balancing gifts or traits that make the whole work together for the family and society. If you are not a Christian and don't like this idea, my psychology professor would describe it as just part of the way women and men have evolved to serve different functions like the ones I described above in the family and as a part of society as a whole.
I don't know what "she" you refer to that "weeps and screams where as men don't bother," but this may not just be that this person is sensative, they may be depressed, or some other problem. Even just a person who has learned to get their way in life by weeping and screaming will do so. So, I would try to be careful as to ascertaining which one this may be and error on the side of caution. In other words lean toward seeing if this person is bothered by something in their life that could cause depression. The ability for women who are truly a sensative person but not overly sensative for whatever reason (cause and affect or learned behavior), should make them sensative to the fact that this behavior of weeping and screaming all the time is disruptive. It is not part of being sensative because a truly sensative person is also sensative to others around them and their wants and needs. If a person is sesative only to their own needs, there is another word for that...it is selfish or self-centered. I don't know the person you are referrencing so I would not be able to tell you. Sounds like they need to see a counselor in either case. If they are depressed or emotionally destrought then counseling can help and if they have behavioral issues that have been learned they could benefit from some counseling but you may also need to go to the counseling with them if you are family or a couple because that will require a unit fix to the problem because of the affect you have had and will have on each other while learning to deal with the issue whatever it is.
If someone is weeping and screaming all the time and telling you it is just because they are sensative and you should understand or leave them alone. That is a cop out, and they need to realize there is a problem and find what the problem is. But, you do need to be sensative in your approach to finding the solution either way. Don't start blaming them for anything and approach them not in anger but with a caring attitude. You would do well to read up on it first and come prepared to show her some books to back you up with what you are saying, once you think you have found the answer. Barnes and Noble or like bookstores, can assist you in locating the right area of the book store to look under the self help books. Then go to her with your new found knowledge and resources available to back you up but nicely not aggressively. So, they will respond, hopefully, in kind. Truly hope this helps you.

Answer 2

Men are taught from an early age to hold in their emotions. It is just not manly to cry or scream over things. A man is told, "be a man", and as such it is a violation for him to show any emotion, when it hurts. In the last ten, or so, years a man has been allowed by society to exhibit some emotions, but it is hard for older men to do this, as it seems to violate all that we have been taught.

Answer 3

Yeah its there nature Ok womens are those who are always sensitive because they cannot control the emotions its there nature and not have such strong heart like that of a mens

Answer 4

Surely this is 'dependant upon the Individual woman'! I have known a woman to all but have an orgasm because I breathed on, about and around that area of the ear ~ whilst lightly licking her there too (ok, I cheated). What I was happening with her little to do with what I was doing (regarding 'efforts'), but more to do with her 'emotional responses to me'. As an exercise, try bringing on responses from your partner WITHOUT touching. It has worked on at least 4 partners over the years. Sash.

Answer 5

Basically, they were made 2 be emotionally sensitive 2 understand their offspring's needs. Men were more like the protectors, hunters for food etc, while women were caring, supportive etc.

Answer 6

We are made to be emotional. That is part of our make up. However with enough practice we can lose some of our ability to be so caring about those who miss use us.

Answer 7

You'd be surprised on how many men do show there emotions just that the show it differently than we woman do.

Answer 8

We can't ..TO bad men arent as sensitive. Thats why so many women are resorting to lesbianism.

Answer 9

Wow, you're Britney Spears...hi Britney!

Answer 10

well all womens are not same i guess. 80% are of the type you are saying and we are so because we are born with such qualities.