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The thing is eveyrone else aorund me seem to be finding a gf or bf....and i'm actually afraid of the upcoming new yr cos ppl would be going to regular fireworks as couples etc etc..
I'm petrified that i will remain single for rest of my life or sumthinhg...i actually know this 35 yr old guy at uni who never ever had a gf and stuff...so yeh
I actually heaps of things to say but then it would never finish...
so can anyone help me out??
Thank u~~
2006-11-18 23:17:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess it is you the one that can help you out.
I have the same "problem" but I don't see it as a problem. Better off alone than in bad company.
Don't you know girls at job? at the bar? where you go? Try to start a nice chat.
I am a loner so for me is difficult to start a conversation with someone I don't know, but if I wouldn't like the way my life was going I would try to do those things, and try to be more social. I guess.
2006-11-18 23:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by sable_laser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a 17 year old in that situation as well with never having a real date. You can try asking a friend to set you up with someone and go on a 'blind date'. you never know, that could work out. With the girl wh you like who has a boyfriend, be her friend. It may hurt but in the long run she'll always remember you for being there for her. Good luck. Don't get discouraged by that one 35 yr old. The probability of getting a girl is higher than not getting one sometime in life. Life goes on, no matter what. Plenty of women out there. Be yourself, check out the clubs, do college activities and meet more people. Good luck, mate.
2006-11-19 07:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by joe19 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard to be by yourself when it seems like the world around you is filled with twosomes. The best advice I could give you is to concentrate an doing what makes you happy for yourself. In the end, you make your own happiness anyway. And if you are content with yourself and who you are and where you are headed in life, you will be a better partner when that special someone walks into your life. Sometimes love happens when you arent looking for it. I hope that special someone comes to you and makes your dreams come true. Good luck.
2006-11-19 07:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by jenkins_nichole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off there are some good answers for you..ignore freight train he only knows one answer.Just be patient. Life is too short to worry about the small things..The right person will come to you when you least expect it and when your not looking. In the mean time hang out with your friends and dont allow yourself to get down and out of lifes game. Get out there ans socialize and have fun doing it.
2006-11-19 07:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SORRY YOU FEEL THAT WAY BUT DO YOU WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP COZ EVRERYONE IS OR DO U WANT ONE SO THAT U URSELF CAN FEEL LOVED AND NEEDED?WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP AND WHAT OPINION DO U HAVE OF URSELF THIS MATTERS COZ HOW U VIEW URSELF CAN SAY A LOT ABOUT U.
DONT LOOK FOR A R/SHIP JUST FOR THE SAKE OF THE NEWYEAR FIREWORKS.AM SURE THERE IS SOMEONE YOU HAVE UR EYE ON TAKE A CHANCE AND MAKE A MOVE U MIGHT BE SURPRISED.
TRY HANGING OUT IN JOINTS THAT RAISE YOUR CHANCES OF MEETING POTENTIAL G/Fs AND B/Fs AND BE YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT IF THEY DNT LIKE U DNT CHANGE COZ THERE'S SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE U BUT DNT BE IN A RUSH JUST
2006-11-19 07:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by valery p 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
look im 40 never been married have had sveral relationships and im still lonely and depressed dont let the fact that others are with people they might not be happy me myself am with someone right now and im very unhappy and depressed is not the word this person dupped me and now the real him is coming out so now its time to leave but im not worried i have myself and the love of god so let it ride it will be ok you wont spend the new years alone i guarantee that she just waiting for the right moment
so merry christmas and happy new year have fun
2006-11-19 07:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by PASSION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a guy or girl?? anywayz hang out with people from the opposite sex and you'll find love evantually.
2006-11-19 07:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silly about asking question, meaningless
2006-11-19 07:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by kajalsen 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well you need to open yourself and more attractive....
2006-11-19 07:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by d1g1b0y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋