the thing is i know that she is texting this ``friend`` but the text was revealing stuff that does not happen between friends!!!
not even best friends!!!!
So i dont want to leave her cause we have been going out for 3 years
and i love her very much.it would be the hardest thing ever to brake up with her!!!!
2006-11-18 23:05:25 · 33 answers · asked by Sliver 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once a cheater, always a cheater. I think you have to see this as a relationship-breaker.
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2006-11-18 23:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question isn't "why is she cheating?" That doesn't matter. The question is why you're allowing this to happen. She can only cheat on you if you're with her.
Look, there are worse things than being single--like, for instance, being in love with somebody who obviously doesn't love and respect you the same way. You deserve that much. Your history together is irrelevant. Your feelings for her are irrelevant. Hers for you are--and she's making them known. She either wants out and doesn't have the courage to end it, or she wants to keep you around as her anchor as she drifts from port to port. Get out while you still can walk out with some dignity. Believe it or not, it'll help the healing if you can be the one to say you ended it. I know it's harsh, but seriously, you've been given some very clear signs. Heed them, before you get hurt even more.
2006-11-18 23:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by theknightsthatsayneep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is not get emotional about it. Realize that you are who you are, maybe it's not good enough for her but whatever makes her happy. Be cool about it, she's not the right girl for you. If she cheats or lies or steals or anything that represents a character flaw she's not even worth the time. She most likely cares about you and does'nt want to hurt you so she's sneeking around. Anyways shes a tramp and it's best you just forget about her. Most importantly is that you forgive her, but never take her back, that would compromise your integrity.
2006-11-18 23:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should leave her, once a cheater always a cheater. she obviously dosent feel the way u feel for her cause if she did she wouldent be able to cheat. figure out the facts first. the best thing to do is to confront hertell her u just wanna know the truth, and that u wont break up with her, then when she says yes, break up with her
2006-11-18 23:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her ,find out whats going on with this so called friend ,if she loved you like you love her she wouldn't be texting in the first place .
You really need to think if this is going to work or not ,i guess not .maybe time to move on with your life and find that special someone you can trust 100%.Good Luck
2006-11-18 23:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by kaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is cheating on you then obviously she doesn't love you as much as she tells you ... talk to her about the texts and make sure you understand exactly what is happening between her and this 'friend' of hers.... at the end of the day it takes two to make a relationship work
2006-11-18 23:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, see what she says ....don't tell her you read the text just say you have a gut feeling. If she goes into the deniel thing and becomes defensive ....walk......let her know you know she is a liar...still do not reveal how.....adn move on to better things she is not worthy of your love.
2006-11-19 00:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep watching those texts and dont let on to her that your on her case. until you have solid evidence then do something about it. take a note of this guys number too. ive been in the same boat except i did kick him out. and actually managed to confront this person so keep hold of the number.
2006-11-18 23:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't treat you like that! you will have to talk to her and find out if she is happy with you, sometimes if girls are not happy they turn else where for comfort and can turn into more! explain how you feel and tell her you will not be cheated on, there is nothing more hurt full when you love someone! gud luck! x
2006-11-18 23:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by red devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about it and see what she says - sometimes things aren't always quite what they seem.
If someone cheated on me it would be a deal breaker as I'd always be wondering when they were going to do it again.
Whatever happens you'll be okay though - take care.
2006-11-18 23:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're going out that ong then you should be able to talk honestly about it with her. Tell her you believe something is going on and you want to talk about it. Tell her you don't want to lose her. you need to know if she was cheating and why. then you should tell her that although you don't want to break up, you cannot have 3 in A Relationship like that. She needs to choose who she needs to be with.Best of luck.
2006-11-18 23:16:51 · answer #11 · answered by cherub 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋