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Met a bloke last night that i used to go to school with. I didn't fancy him initially but he made me laugh and feel good so i agreed to meet up with him later for a chat. Ended the night with him kissin me. thought i would hate it but made my belly flip! Do you think you can have something without the initial wow factor???

2006-11-18 22:59:48 · 25 answers · asked by punkydorieme 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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the heart is a power factor on how you see thing. Love is a funny thing, what do you want from it? If your goals in dating are to find true love you need to follow your heart not your eyes. in twenty years a pretty face gets old a warm heart don't

2006-11-18 23:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan S 2 · 3 0

well, if your belly flipped for the right reason which is love or something like that (coz maybe your belly flipped because your belly doesn't fancy him either), then you have something without the initial wow factor, as you call it...anyway, it was still the beginning.. and you can't say right away that he'd be the man you will grow old with... just try. maybe it wont work out but then again, maybe it will.

2006-11-18 23:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by -'UpEnDi'- 2 · 2 0

It is to a degree, as long as the person isn't repellent to you. I had a 3-year relationship with a moderately cute girl I didn't think was all that the first time I met her, but she quickly grew on me as I learned more about her. I think it's that personality builds attraction for both sexes, and without it, there's just the physical, which is hard to sustain on its own.

I've spent plenty of time in my career around very beautiful women who often have abhorrent personalities or emotional problems, which I've found, for me at least, totally kills the physical attraction. I think it's entirely reasonable that it would work the other way, too.

2006-11-18 23:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by theknightsthatsayneep 2 · 2 0

Yes I Do!!!

Sometime when we meet people we can find them to be very unattractive but then we get to know them as a friend to hang with and they make us feel good inside by making us Laugh, feel great inside and in my experience Guys who are not physically attractive have the biggest intimate hearts, and they care more about you then anything else and they put you Frist. From my experience I prefer the physically unattractive ones.

2006-11-18 23:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by loyaltytofamily 1 · 1 0

Those are usually the best ones.

Because you are not in it for superficial reasons it will most likely last.

Having your belly flip from loving a guys personality HAS to be the best.

And because you like him for whats on the inside you can see him at his worst and he will still give you butterflies.

Good luck.

2006-11-18 23:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Alex The Girl 2 · 3 0

Yes definitely. But from what you said you had the initial wow factor when your belly fliped.

2006-11-18 23:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 1 0

a deep and open friendship yes as far as a relationship thats up to youbeauty is not always in the looks just look around ive seen some odd couples ive been part of some odd couples so that is a decision that you would have to make

2006-11-18 23:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by PASSION 3 · 1 0

Yes

2006-11-18 23:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Achilles 2 · 1 0

Yes, absolutely. Physical appearance doesn't matter so much. If you give anyone the chance, you'd be surprised at how good plain ordinary men can be. We make more of an effort to please you than those men who rely solely on their good looks, or who are good at sweet-talking into doing what they want you to do.

2006-11-18 23:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by colin.christie 3 · 2 0

I think that you have to fancy a guy to date him. I think that everything about a guy should make you fancy him. When I think about my boyfriend, he makes me fancy him by the way he talks and how he makes me laugh and how sexy he is.
I think that in time you would fancy him and youll see him in a different light and fancy him,

2006-11-19 00:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by xx angel 3m xx 2 · 0 0

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