I just had my daughter Alyssa born on July 6th and woke up in the middle of the night with the exact same cramps I had for two weeks before I realized I was pregnant with her mind you I was on the shot. Took a pregnancy test after missed period and came up positive!!! My husband told me recently he did not want another little one SERIOUSLY and now I don't know what to tell him.
2006-11-18 20:45:40 · 21 answers · asked by Tanya 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
just wait a few months, see if he notices, just say your getting fat. pretend it's not really happening, just hope it goes away. go out one moring to pick up Alyssa and say, ooow look i've found another one.
SERIOUSLY... tell him, it's his responsibility too, you can then decide if you want to keep it. coz if you tell him when it's too late and he didn't want it, that could cause far more problems than telling him now. tell him NOW!!
good luck.
2006-11-18 20:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by jesus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, tell him. I am sure that he can't look at you and say 'no I don't want another kid' if he did that then he is not worth keeping.
You have to tell him at some point, it will be obvious soon. Just sit him down and tell him, he should be happy for the two of you.
If together you both decide you can't afford another child consider adoption as there are many people trying to have children that would love to have one. Abortions are wrong (Just had to stick my Christian View in there... sorry)
Bottom line, talk to him and tell him the truth, a child is a gift from God so enjoy the next 18 happy years!
God Bless, Congrats, and Good Luck!
2006-11-18 20:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate the shot...I know so many women that got pregnant on it....I'm so sorry you are in this situation! If it were me, I would tell my husband the truth and seriously discuss the options. Don't feel too bad. You are on the shot, so you tried to be responsible. However, bc isn't 100% effective, and he knows that, so anytime you have sex of course pregnancy is a possibility. Of course, I would get off the shot and get on the patch or pill at this point...seeing how the shot is ineffective!
Good luck and take care!
2006-11-18 22:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only tell him. I had long gone to the healthcare expert the day in the past I took my being pregnant try that got here up beneficial. The healthcare expert pronounced I had a flu, so I only used that as my taking off line. My husband substitute into so excited, it doesnt remember the form you tell him yet once you with carry the suggestion from him then he won't be as happy while he finds out you have accepted for many of days and didnt tell him once you first found out.
2016-11-25 19:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by rinkiewicz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did not make the child alone! He participated! If he does not want to have any more kids, then he should do a vasectomy! So he has to know! The sooner the better, or else he might say that you did not tell it. Good luck! For you and the new baby!
2006-11-18 20:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lisistrata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course baby.
Your husband loves you.
It's his baby as well as yours. You've done nothing wrong. That's life. If HE said he didn't want kids HE should have been wearing a rubber. You forgetting to take the pill doesn't absolve him from all responsibility does it?
Tell him. Nothing is as bad as we think it is going to be. Hopefully hes a real man and will step up to the plate. Either way, you have to tell him. Right?
I wish you both the best. and Congratulations!
2006-11-18 20:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by messier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We know how babies are born and so does your husband. It's a natural thing and sometimes it just happens that way birth control and all. Personally, in this situation so he doesn't threaten to divorce you unless you end it I would wait till it's close to being too late. Not obviously so.
2006-11-18 20:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to be honest with your husband and tell him. Maybe he might feel differently knowing that you are pregnant. If you want to keep it you have no choice but to tell him. If you don't - its still his right to know. Its a decision that you will have to make together as husband and wife. Good Luck!
2006-11-18 20:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by bsb8721481 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you then he will understand that it took him to create this miricle of life. I say tell him. If you are worried that he might flip out the tell him in front of some close friends or family. They will be there with their support.
2006-11-19 01:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by rosebudky2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell him things happen for a reason and they turn out to be the best little suprizes ever so just think of the best things out of this
2006-11-18 22:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋