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there's this girl, and i have told her repeatedly that i love her. but she doesn't tell me anything. i have no idea how she feels about me. we have a lot in common. and i can confide in her. but when i ask her if we can be together, she tells me to wait.i have been waiting for an answer for at least 7 months. i am in love with her and i'd die for her. but i dont't know how long i can wait. plus i'm only 15. what should i do?

2006-11-18 19:18:15 · 18 answers · asked by Guilver 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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dude, i think you're way too young to be thinking about spending the rest of your life with someone let alone admitting that you'd die for a girl. you can't abuse saying that you love a girl just b/c that's how you feel. if you've only said it a couple of times that's ok, but if you are constantly reminding her of it, she's bound ot get really annoyed at you, which (and i wouldn't blame her) she probably already is. so, back off and forget about her for a while. don't try so hard to push ur feelings on her. you can't force someone to love you back and you can't for someone to say it back either.

2006-11-18 19:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by Brig 1 · 0 0

this girl is not interested in you at all. If she doesn't respond when you tell her that you love her, then she doesn't feel the same way. Maybe she just wants to be friends, maybe she thinks that that is enough. If you have been waiting for 7 months and she hasn't made any attempt to respond to you then you need to let it go and move on.

2006-11-18 19:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0 0

wait a minute. when you say "be together" do you mean have sex with her? if that's the case, then i really don't think its a good idea and understand why the girl is hesitant.

otherwise, maybe she's just shy. maybe she's never had a boyfriend before. maybe she really likes you and can't find a way to say it. i don't know, but if you have to wait over a year, i suggest that you find another person.

2006-11-18 19:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by flyinghigher 2 · 0 0

It just sounds like she isnt in the same place you are. You might consider breaking up for a while so that she can see how she really feels about you. Then if the two of you have feelings for eachother, try again.

2006-11-18 19:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 5 · 0 0

We ll you have to keep talking to her get to know her very well and she get to know you very well she probably don t know you very well be her friend first tell her how you feel say if you don t want to go out let just be friends. What i do i buy girls candy you could try giving her candy and see she will like you more. wait till she say something sweet to you and ask her can we go out. if she don t give you no answer look for a next girl. you don t have to do it if you don t want buying that girl a candy that just my suggestion

2006-11-18 19:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sorry to be harsh but it sounds like she is just stringing you along. I think you should try confront her about it. Its not fair for her to keep you waiting and lead you on! Although she might be just scared because of past experiences or something along the lines of that!
Just talk to her and ask her straight up!
Good Luck ;-)

2006-11-18 19:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

7 months is long enough for the waiting. Be firm, and demand her to make a decision now and be respectful of your time.

2006-11-18 19:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by OC 7 · 0 0

Since,she is young too she is definitely confused. Love is the simplest thing but to except it at first may be difficult.Tell her what you told me and if you still get no response then move on.

2006-11-18 19:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by kat 2 · 0 0

Love takes time. I think the only thing to do is to wait and see.

2006-11-18 19:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by curious~me 3 · 0 0

ask if she loves you the same way. then decide the answer on your own. sometimes she asks u to wait but may not be loving you, she's just needing assurance for her sense of security.

2006-11-18 19:24:36 · answer #10 · answered by rachel 3 · 0 0

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