Remember this question a few days ago:
I deal with another organisation through my work & often chat with this girl who works there, we get on great & always have a good laugh on the phone when we speak or meet for meetings as a result of work.
We text each other outside work and the othe rnight I was texting her & she let out that she was now single again. We exchanged texts, & one of them from her told me that I mean a lot to her. She suggested we meet up & go for something to eat which we have arranged.
I really like her but don't want to misread the signals. Do you think she is interested in me in bf/gf material?or just friends?
Well,we went out,had a lovely meal, lots of conversation & laughs.We got on great.
Think it was a bit stupid idea now,but I sent her yellow roses which she got yesterday. She texted me to thank me & said they were beautiful.
Whats next step, not sure she's interested? She recently split with her fiancee, her choice not sure why she did tho
2006-11-18 19:10:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The yellow roses were perfect. Red would, to some women, have signified more. Good job there. Like Richard noted, it looks like she enjoys your company.
Next step, much as with Richard, I would tell her that you would like to go out with her again, if she is interested, but you don't want to crowd.
That way she knows you wish to go a bit farther, but you are respecting her right to not rush things.
Women like to feel like a man is attentive, but not pushy. I have learned from plain old experience, and what both female and male friends have said.
I gave your question a positive rating because I think is is an important one!
2006-11-18 19:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow and listen to your heart mate do things slowly and just go with it, Maybe hint that you like her that way, a quick line dropped into a conversation will reveal the truth you seek. Maybe along the lines of, I like you more then i tell myself i do, something along those lines. She'll get your meaning. And maybe you will find your perfect partener ever way my friend i wish you all the best in your decison's and hope she is the one for you.
2006-11-18 19:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Rulin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out again hell all she can do is say no if she goes it might be the start of a great relationship you dont want to look back in a year or longer and say I should have asked her out for a second date live for the moment
2006-11-18 19:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by dvnhrld2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it one step at a time with her. Arrange to meet up again, Just relax and have fun.
It certainly sounds like she enjoys your company a lot.
2006-11-18 19:15:52 · answer #4 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is interested - flowers would have scared her off already if not! If she just split up she probably needs time so just take it slow! You sound like a nice guy!!
2006-11-18 19:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by RUTH C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems she is fairly interested or she woudnt have had lots of converstation and laughs when you went out together, did she mention her ex much?? if she didnt thats a good sign, reckon you should progress in dating her but take it one step at a time.
2006-11-18 21:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out again and let her know your interested, she probably already has an idea that you are.
2006-11-18 20:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jovi Freak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out to dinner / movie again and take it from there.
2006-11-18 19:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋