I dated a girl for about 3 weeks...things went pretty far between us physically, and things seemed to be going ok. Suddenly she stopped talking to me a few days ago. I have texted her 7 or 8 times, emailed once, and tried to call her twice in the last week trying to figure out what happened. She is not responding to anything. I'm just trying to figure out what happened and why she stopped talking to me all of a sudden. Am I being a stalker? I hope not!
2006-11-18 19:06:04 · 9 answers · asked by mu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not a stalker yet. But she is obviously trying to tell you that she either a.) isn't ready to talk to you or b.) doesn't want to talk to you at all. Take the hint and wait for her to get back to you. OR (and this is my real suggestion) forget about her altogether. If she isn't decent enough to explain what's going on, then she isn't decent enough for you. Find someone else.
2006-11-18 19:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by imhalf_the_sourgirl_iused_tobe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is really strange that she wouldn't even return your call if even to tell you to stop calling her. I realize there is a fine line there in contacting her. It seems you have gone out of your way to try to contact her. So you may want to give it some time. Contact her again in another month. She may have left on business or family matters and didn't let you know about it. This way if you contact her in a month and don't hear anything then, well then you know she doesn't want you to contact her. Because texting her 8 times she should have received those. So though it is mind boggling to you right now, you may want to wait awhile then try again at a later date.
2006-11-19 03:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are sometimes like that, she might be taking her time to decide on where the relationship is going and what she should do about that. Give her time to take a decision on her own. Try not to bother her until she comes back to you and she will, once you stop calling her. If she doesn't, then that is your key to move on with your life. It is not worth following someone who doesn't take time to admit to you what the problem is.
2006-11-19 03:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by rahulbhel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah i dont think you are a stalker, that girl sounds kind of retarded
im thinking either shes done with you like" ok, i had sex. i met someone esle ill just ignore him like a dog" or she has issues or maybe she has reasonable reasons (i dont personally think so)
she sounds like this girl i know crystal only talks to me when shes bored or when no one esle to talk to but when i call her/text/e-mail her she never holla back
if i were you i would just stop talking to her 100% for a while and i garntee she will try to get in touch with you but when she does DONT EVER REPLY !!
2006-11-19 03:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no yes because after the 5 time in trying you should of gotten the message.And no because you want to no what happened between the to of you.She is the one with the problem not you.
2006-11-19 03:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you can be, if you allow this to continue. She's showing you already that she's not interested. She sounds like a selfish person, Move on, and find someone else. Have pride.
2006-11-19 03:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by tinamaries43 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't seem like stalker material yet but if you keep it up for another week or two, then yea, you'll be considered a stalker in my mind.
2006-11-19 03:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Brig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she got hit by a bus and died?
God some people are so insensitive!!!
2006-11-19 03:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by master_betty_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she dose not answer,just move on,yes you are stalker,
2006-11-19 03:16:17 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋