whats bad if a guy like me who is married but has sex with likeminded woman for some fresh air?

Question

i am a male of 36 with an athletic body,goodlooking staying at bbsr orissa

Answer 1

Why would you like to keep ur wife who is so faithful and has so much of trust in u in the dark, why do you want to get into adultery by having sex with another woman why do you want to betray her in this way, If u wanted some fresh air all this time or u just fell into the mood for it why the heck of it did u get marrried to her!!?, It doesn't matter whether u are handsome or have an athletic body if u want to do things bad enough that will affect others feelings badly then people will only see ur bad side, noone will be interested in ur looks or ur body if u commit sins at the cost of ur family!
I hope u make decisions with maturity and not according to ur physical needs!!
If u really are in great need of physical gratification (which ucall as fresh air) then plz free ur wife with mutual understanding!
Or if u are a serious kind of a guy plz take care of the situation by talking to ur wife about making sex interesting for both of u'll and I am sure u'll not need any kind of more fresh air!!
All the best

Answer 2

Theres absolutely nothing wrong in having sex with a like minded woman for ''some fresh air'', when you are married, have a wife and just as much as you need some fresh air, I assume that you do find your home and your wife, really stale,monotonous, and really do not find her ''like minded'', and you have no dedication, or love towards her, therefore, I also assume that in some corner of her mind, your wife might be feeling the same. Just as much as you need ''some fresh air'' probably you must accept the fact that your wife would need ''some fresh air'' too, and trust me, she would if she really got someone who would be ''some fresh air'' for her too.

I was just looking at your question. You also seem to be a very self-absorbed person. First you are confusing relationships here. Is it the sex, or is it the like mindedness of this ''other'' woman that attracts you ? Am I right that the '''like mindedness'' may be the like mindedness in your attitude towards sex, and only sex, or is it some other factor that I might be missing ? Further, you have gone on to describe your athletic body, and your goodlooks, probably to assert the ''physical'' part of the whole thing, so again I assume that it is sex, and only sex. I cannot really interpret the ''like minded'' theory, in any other way. But obviously, how silly of me, nothing to explain on that.

Ever wondered, once all the good looks fade away, what would happen ? This ''other'' woman is a ''some fresh air'' for you now, but I am sure, like your wife, you would find her too stale at some point of time. How long would you go on ? What effect it would have on your wife, and do you think this ''other woman'' is taking the whole thing only at the ''sex'' perspective of it, where I am sure she is mentally involved too....and then you have to be very very cautious when the ''other'' woman gets emotionally involved, leading to a lot of emotional conflicts, confusion, and drain you altogether...at the end of the whole affair. Be prepared for all of that. I am not mentioning all the health risks in having sex with every '''some-fresh-air'' you come across, I am sure you know that better.

Any one would advise you to first leave your wife, so that she can lead her own life, and you can carry on with your like minded relationship, and ofcourse that is the best. Cos if you continue this, at some point of time it would spill, in some way or the other. So you may as well do it yourself, by letting your wife free, and yourself to lead your own free lives. I really wouldnt know what else to say, cos' you havent said much yourself, other than sex and your good looks. So, good luck, and dont let things get uglier than it already is.

Answer 3

it's bad dude. i'm not here judgeing you or preaching to you but you asked and i'm going to give you an honest truthful answer.

you are married and marriage is a vow that you make to your wife in front of God. God is the only important witness to your marriage. and by having sex with other women, whether your wife is cool with it or not, you are breaking your vow. and God says, in his bible, that he doesnt like that.

and God doesnt want you to keep your just cause he's God and he says so. he wants you to do it because it will keep your marriage healthy.

If you sleep with other woman and your wife is sleeping with other men then why the hell are you married? you dont REALLY love her because i love my wife and that is the only woman i would want to sleep with. she's everything to me and and couldnt imagine sharing her with some other guy.

some guy could just be sleeping with your wife? would you had allowed that on your wedding day? HELL NO, i know i would want to kill a guy if he laid some pipe cross my wife. No i take that back, I WOULD kill a guy if he even touched my wife in that way.

you should be loyal to her, man. think about all that you invested in her. the wedding ring, a place to live, any kids you might have, all that time it took to get her when you actually wanted her, going to work all those days just so she could have a place to live, all the stuff she made you do when you wanted to do somrthing else, comforting her when she came to you crying, the first time you made love to her? think about the first time she let you go all the way and now she's gonna be doin that for some other guy who hasnt even done 1/2, damn, not even 1/3 of what you've done for her. and havent invested anything in YOUR wife. i couldnt let her do it. and i couldnt do it to her. she would be crushed. I never want to be the guy that those lesbians talk about. THe "GUY" that turned them. Thats not me and i"m not goin out like that.

Answer 4

nothing wrong if your wife and your childrens dont have any probs and your wife and your children too have sex with likeminded man and other youngsters for deep fresh air. nothing wrong at all. infact i will suggest you that whenever you go out to meet the other lady for sex purpose just drop your wife too wherever she too want some fresh air. i feel sorry for you for betraying your wife who trust you. if you wanted the fresh air then why the hell you got married to her. just free her up from your relationship and go remain out only for getting fresh air. and no need to give detail information that " you have an athletic body ,and you are good looking" as person with a ugly heart dont need any good looking body to hide the ugly side of him.

Answer 5

Nothign wrong. Go ahead. But with the permission of your wife. Also do not forget to give the same freedom to her.

Answer 6

Better to get rid of your wife first , if she has become a stale thing and then be a master of your mind and body.

Answer 7

Are you ready to accept your wife doing the same?

Answer 8

I guess it'd be okay as long as your wife knows about it and is okay with it and free to have sex with other men as well.

Answer 9

Please go ahead...!!! People like you should better not marry and rather should lead bachelors life always free for any one always getting fresh air and.....!!!!!