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I was wondering if it could have been something I did in a past life or because i was the product my of father cheating on his wife. Everytime i get happy something bad happens. I can't find a job, im overweight and missing out on life. not to mention a stack of bills. I dont feel Gods love. I feel like he'll never allow me to do anything. Everytime i plan to go somewhere something happens and I need to get out the house.

2006-11-18 18:32:03 · 28 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

28 answers

actualy god doesnt hate you,
he tursts your strength in life. i knw its depressing now to have no way out and think that the last emotional link in your life is going to back out on you just like every one else, but its the exact opposite. dont look for a all the sudden big change, change the little things. find a new job, go out on the town by yourself, play pogs if it makes you happy. dont stress so much and dont think that its your fault for what other people have done or ended up and vise versa. and just belive in your strength over anything else beacuse if there is a god he will help you once youve decided its time for you to be happy and turn your life around.

2006-11-18 19:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sounds like you don't like you- there are things in your life that are totally up to you- and that no one can make you do- God new about you before you were born- you are not an accident or a sin- He loves you very much- and people have their own free will-you need to like you and know what God thinks about you- and the plans he has for you- He is the father that will never leave us or forsake us- sometimes feelings change like the weather- you can't always believe our feelings- esp when we know the truth- D

2006-11-18 18:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0 0

I am very sorry for your pain.
There are things you can do to lose weight and you know that, do not be silly thinking those kind of thoughts about your father and his ex wife. Listen life is not a walk in the park for anybody, you should not pity yourself ,it will get better . Please do exercise, read ,there are many self help books that will give you some insight. You must start thinking positive to change your life, blaming people or God won't get you anywhere but make things worse.Do not give up.

2006-11-18 18:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by ateo 2 · 1 0

God does NOT hate you! God loves you! You just have to pray and have alot of faith in God. It helps to be a born again Christian by repenting your sins to God, accepting Jesus as your saviour. This is being saved. Then if you live by the word of God, you will have alot of great blessings. I use to be into card readings, etc, and my life was a disaster. I got saved and have been for a while now. I quit going to bars and anything where evil lurks. It is not God making the bad, it is satan that does that. After you are saved demand satan to leave in the name of Jesus. Then once you have done all this, pray everyday and keep Jesus close. Pray about a job, weight, etc and God will make it happen for you. Trust me, you will be happy you did this. Go to a minister for help if you are not sure about how to be saved. God Bless

2006-11-18 18:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by Dakota Lynn Takes Gun 6 · 0 0

He does not hate you! God loves every one, even if that seems hard to belive. maybe he is letting you have those problems to make you stronger, it will all go away soon. im sorry this is happening but, it will happen to almost anyone so dont feel bad. There is a place you can go for help that is your local church,talk to God and a preacher, we all love you man, and we wish you the best of luck! God Bless!!

2006-11-19 03:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by Rhiannon. Stay[[+]] 4 · 0 0

I do not like to hear of anyone blaming God for there own problems,So if you won megabucks tonight You would thank God.I have a very very hard and sad life I do not blame God.
We make our own problems,I made some bad choices in life, coupled with the cost of living being so out of control.I am 53
years old ,all my children and grandchildren suffering, some homeless,two in need of surgery but no medical insurance We
do not own cars ,those few of us who have a roof over our heads, have no food no phone etc. etc. I do not have one penny, I have not been out in two years,we do not have holidays,I live in
one room ,I have no burial insurance.God is not a fault.I married
a man who did not support the family,All my problems were caused by Me.I thank God I could have it a lot worse.

2006-11-18 18:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by gwhiz1052 7 · 1 1

God doesn't hate you, his son died for you. You are just going through a rough patch. By the symptoms you describe you may also be suffering from clinical depression.

Try exercise, walking, talking to people, a support group, or a trip to the doctor. I hope that you get to feeling better, but all things happen for a reason.

Just remember, God doesn't hate you he LOVES you!

2006-11-18 18:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Do you remember Job in the Bible how he lost all and he did/t giving up so dint you give up Ana God dose hate you he dose nabob he love everybody he give him only son to die on the cores so we could go free so when you think every think is go bad just pray and keep on pray tell you get the answer for God OK

2006-11-18 18:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by EVA J 4 · 1 0

To me, God has nothing to do with this. Your perception is what's going on. Someone else in your same situation may say, that God loves them because of not living in a country that is a warzone, or not being born with a terrible disease. There is always someone who has it worse, and I'm not really religious, but you seem to be. So I would say that, God may have more love for you than you know.

2006-11-18 18:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

You need to get out of the house. God doesn't hate you. YOU hate you. Stop hating yourself, and stop blaming God. Get out and take some risks. Live life! That's what God wants you to do, and that's what is good for you. Bad **** happens to everybody, its your choice whether you want to get whiney about it. Read some Nietzsche, read some Ecclesiastes, and do something with yourself.

2006-11-18 18:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jacob P 2 · 2 0

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