My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prostitute. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so. He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad. He is silent since 4-5 days now. WILL HE MESG OR CONTACT ME AGAIN???
2006-11-18 18:26:45 · 8 answers · asked by ciendriella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he will contact you with in a week but al you ahve to do is ignor him he get pleasue from abuseing you and if you don't let him get the pleasur then he will stop it's like a drug addict once his body gets ammun( ignors) one druge that person gose on a stroger drug so all you ahve to do is ignor it if it get realy realy bad tell soem one of a higher athority
sorry about the spelling
2006-11-18 18:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Tyler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid that he will contact you again because there was no clear finality, closure or ending that was made to put a stop to this. This is serious. Keep those messages, don't erase them, if anything should happen to you, this is proof. You have 2 choices, tell your parents or the police or buy yourself a new contact number and change your address. Men like these are difficult and scary to deal with on your own. You better ask help from people you trust.
2006-11-19 02:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks he messing with your mind he will do it again because he gets off on it. Don't respond and give him the thrill of knowing he's bothering you. Keep the messages as evidence. Go to the courthouse and apply for an order of protection. When he gets the court order if he messages you again he gets to go to jail. You have to stand up to this kind of crap, but dont' contact or respond to him yourself. Have the courts do it so he'll know you're not putting up with his threats. Otherwise it may never end. So you can quit playing the game of finding out what he thinks. Leave that to the 8th grade girls.
2006-11-19 02:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by bdenton2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your phone number and dont give it to anyone of his friends or him and find you a good man that will be there to take care of you and treat you better.
2006-11-19 02:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by krazeetingtong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 year olds should not even have txt msgn
2006-11-19 02:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops on him. Make it clear he is to leave you alone.
2006-11-19 02:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by luffa202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you just re-send this question again??!!!!
2006-11-19 02:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD HELPS THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES!!
*runs away*
2006-11-19 02:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by The Fifth Contender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋