Everytime I try talking to my bf about what I feel he never ever seems to listen or take what I say into consideration. It just seems like he doesn't care about my opinion. I always, always take into consideration his point of view on everything because I love him, but he certainly does not return the favour. I hope someone can help me with this.
2006-11-18 18:26:41 · 12 answers · asked by Honey_Bun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My opinion...though not easy to hear, he's just not that into you. I've been there before. Thought I was doing something wrong. I was with the jerk for 5 years and always felt like I wasn't heard. Now I have a fiance who takes everything I have to say into consideration. He may not always agree, we sometimes agree to disagree, but he always listens. I didn't listen to my friends and family for 5 years when they told me this so as hard as it is to hear, I feel your pain but hope you don't take as long as I did to figure out--they told me so. Good luck. The right guy is out there and trust me, you'll realize what I'm saying when you see how he treats you.
2006-11-18 18:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by aquari-kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend seems like a selfish person. It is so difficult for people to listen to one another. Are you sure he is in love with you? The best think to do is to talk to him in such a way he will not have o choice and discuss this. The sooner the better.
2006-11-19 02:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by netslaveone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him listen. Sit him down and tell him what you think of that or the issue your on. Sometimes you let their minds wander and it takes some help to get them back on track. So remember that and a good yelling helps that also.
2006-11-19 03:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kayla [(Adam)] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your boyfriend and ask him if he cares, tell him if he actually cares about you, he would listen to you, or maybe he is listening but isnt showing it. I had that experience where I thought my bf wasnt listening to me but he actually was so becareful. If you think hes not listening to you, and he says he is, then ask him what did I say? Hope all works out.
2006-11-19 02:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, have you had sex with him? Because it sounds like you have. You shouldn't oughta done that. Its a sure fire way for your b/f to stop listening to you.
He's obviously an ***, you should get rid of him as soon as possible. That's coming from another man.
2006-11-19 02:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jacob P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter saying your opinion and what anoys you and give it to her. She never listens to you but she will definetely read your letter.And she may understand you and do not treat you again like this!
2006-11-19 05:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by ambegail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes your bf she should want to listen
2006-11-19 02:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jeramy Cosby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ...babe...i think it's high time for you to think...weigh and reconsider your feelings towards your boyfriend...any relationship...be it in friendship...a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship...even between husband and wife...it always takes two to tanggo. a good relationship is not a one-way traffic...it must always be a two-way ...give and take. wake up...and move on...good luck!!!
2006-11-19 03:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by dimma59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him think it's his idea. Make him come to you. Don't always being the one asking how he is, what he thinks, what his opinion is. Play hard to get, aren't you?!
2006-11-19 02:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by Robin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say to him if he cares about you then he will sit and listen to ya
2006-11-19 03:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by mustang_rws 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋