I got dumped by my ex boyfriend a few weeks ago I cannot really calculate the exact date. I am good friends with his sister and I usually go over to her house, where he lives also, and party with her. I do see him every weekend when I am over there and he treats me good. As a matter of fact a little bit like we were when we were going out. What I mean by this is he is really nice to me and is conderned when I look upset. I did not go over there this weekend and I can not sleep anymore and things are just not as usual for myself. This is not like a normal break up that I usually have. He told me that there was no love there in our realationship after seven months after we dated but a week after we broke up we slept in the same bed and he was conserned about whether or not I had "Hated" him or not. I replyed to him that I could never hate him. I am asking for some opinions and some answers from someone who has been in this situation before. Thank you so much.
2006-11-18 18:18:31 · 4 answers · asked by unknown 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It time you found some one else and somewhere else to party
2006-11-18 18:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not fully understanding what you're looking for not do I fully understand some of what you said but here goes anyway. You're getting older, more mature and the reasons for breaking up are more complicated. It's not "you looked at someone else" any longer. It's more "I'm not emotionally satisfied" Be grateful you had what you had. Learn from what happened, talk to him about it. There will be more times that either you or the one you're involved with just don't click at some phase of the relationship. And if that happens the wise thing to do is to get out. People who stick with it and hope it will change after they get married most likely are all divorced by now. Marriage is forever. Make sure before you take the plunge or just wait. There's no shame in being single. Think of the math: what are the odds of you meeting someone and them asking you out, then seeing if you're compatible enough to go out again, then have enough feelings for them to go out another five times, then develop a friendship with and go out for a year, then fall in love with and spend another year together and then move in together or get married and then live happily ever after. What are the odds of this happening with the first person you meet, the second person you meet, the tenth person you meet? Stay friends if you can and want to, who knows, maybe you'll grow together again?
2006-11-19 02:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by xo_heartbeat_xo@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It' s over. Stop thinking about it.
2006-11-19 02:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by bdenton2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think no one
2006-11-19 02:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by ashishmulye 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋