and now I regret it because this guy turned out to be a loser...because he cheated on her and I know he's not serious about their relationship...but my sister is madly inlove with him.
Should I tell my sister?....and if so, how or what should I tell her?....without getting upset with me....because I know that she will blaim me.
2006-11-18 17:49:09 · 10 answers · asked by ♥chicagurl♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You still have to tell her. Blood is thicker than water. Besides, she'll be a lot madder at you if you know this and say nothing. Tell her you're sorry, you didn't know, but that's what you know now. In the long run, it will strengthen your relationship.
2006-11-18 17:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, b/4 you hooked her up you should've made sure he was a good guy. you need to talk to him first and tell him that what he's doing is wrong and that you want him to stop seeing your sister. if that doesn't work then you should tell your sister that the guy you thought he was isn't what he turned out to be. tell her that your sorry but he's cheated on you and you were scared to tell her since she loves him a lot. tell her that you know that she deserves better and that's why your telling her that.
2006-11-18 17:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely have to tell her he cheated. That's your sister! She might be upset with you, but wouldn't you want to know if your bf was cheating on you? If my sister knew my bf was cheating, and didn't tell me, I'd be so mad at her I might not talk to her for a long time. Tell her now!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-18 17:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's your sister. You have to tell her. Just say you made a mistake about his character and you don't want to see her hurt. It will be entirely up to her tho whether she takes your advice or not. You have to at least try.
2006-11-18 17:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by jare bare 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you should tell him. It is the best thing to do even though it is going to hurt her. you should tell her how he feels about her because that normally changes the way people feel about others. when you confront her, you should talk to her in person in a serious tone. give her a hug after your done. if she blames you...shez being immature about it.
2006-11-18 17:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by DANCER_CHiCK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have done mistake and i admire that you now dare to correct the same.
Go ahead and tell the truth forget about the consequences and try to be good.
your sis will definetely forgive u
2006-11-18 17:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by ashishmulye 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should not blame you- you did not make him cheat-she will be upset- but I think she would want to know- you will be handy and you can comfort her and she can cry on your shoulder- D
2006-11-18 17:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not blame yourself as u're just trying to help your sis.....just treat it as an experience n' i'll never happen again in the future....none of u hope for it to happen........u gotta tell her the truth for the better or worse......in that way, at least she knows what kind of guy he is n' don't feel so bad breaking up.......u're helping her......good luck!!!
2006-11-18 17:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let her be mad at you... she will get over more better then if she finds out her self. then knew you knew... she will find a better guy for her .. but your family . family stick together!!
good luck
2006-11-18 17:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by diamondg4u2c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
their is no ay around it, just bite the bullet and face the music
2006-11-18 17:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by joseph s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋