2006-11-18 17:43:36 · 18 answers · asked by magicglueofmike 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
EVERY BODY LIES...even though the "holier than God people say they don't..." yea, right and my dog can talk!!!since it is just little stuff, i would just forget about it...and JUST TRY TO BE honest IF YOU CAN..IF YOU CAN'T THEN YOU CAN'T,,,,JUST DO YOUR BEST!!!
2006-11-18 17:46:49 · answer #1 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I had a boyfriend once who did that all the time, he's now my best friend. And he still trys that with me.LOL But he knows me better than that because he knows I know when he's lying. I tell him all the time He doesn't have to lie for me to like him. I tell him to just be himself and people would respect him more than if he was to lie and get caught. So maybe that's why you do it to, cause you think she'll like you more? or maybe you want her to think your cool? I'm not sure, but what ever it is I promiss it won't pay off in the long run, because what are u gonna say to her when she finally does find out about those little white lies? The point is that you don't have to lie even just the little one's! for some one to like you. If she likes you now she'll like the real you as well. Best of Luck! sunnydays
2006-11-19 01:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so afraid that she will judge you, if she really loves you she will not judge. Let her know you, the real YOU! Lying is not healthy in a relationship and neither is hiding things. I have a feeling that my boyfriend is hiding things from me and it is putting a damper on our relationship because sometimes I feel I cannot trust him. Try not to lie at all, even about little things because you will lose in the end, if she finds out about the lies she will feel she cannot trust you and it will put a damper on your relationship. If you really love her, stop lying. If you can't stop, get help, get counseling, there is help out there. Good luck!
2006-11-19 01:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people like my husband for one lie because they simply don't want to hurt the other significant one...They probably just fabricate a reality to satisfy the questioning/insecurities of another JUSt so he could function on a day to day basis without the other bickering near them,....Other lie just because they want to get away and don't want the significant find out
2006-11-19 01:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a liar. This is not cool whether it is about little things or big things. The main thing is she will not trust you at all. You will need more than the magic glue to hold your relationship together if you do not get some self respect.
2006-11-19 01:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not good to lie to your loved ones. How would you feel if she lied to you all the time about things that she can easily tell the truth about? Maybe if you take a walk in her shoes, you will realize that it's not healthy to keep someone around that keeps constantly lying to you all the time about the littlest things. "White lies" are the hardest lies to tell, and the worst to get over. Hard to tell them because you gotta keep up with them, and get over them because one "white lie" follows another. Think About It!!!
2006-11-19 01:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by Ebony da *Dimepiece* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you're afraid of disappointing her. Maybe you think that the small things that you do may either irritate or displease her in a way. You just seem self conscious about yourself which is why you lie about the small stuff. Just be yourself, its best that she know who you realy are and what you do. If you lie about them and you get caught, you may regret it more and you'll never feel free in this relationship.
2006-11-19 01:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if these 'little things' make you look better then its the need to impress. But if they are just blatant lies you may have a problem and need to see a psychiatrist you may think that seems a bit over the top but i know it from past family experiences. You could be a pathological lier
2006-11-19 01:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by Pandoooo;. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i think that guys lie to girls becuz they are afraid of telling them the truth.. guys have this need to look big and tough, or maybe you are afraid that if she knows the little things she'll get to close to you, you need to sit back and think about your relationship and think if i can't tell her the truth about this that and the other then do i really love her? and if the answer is yes then do some soul searching and try to figure out why you lie, make notes it helps..
2006-11-19 01:47:48 · answer #9 · answered by julie43824 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel embarrassed about things? Do you lie about them because you feel like the truth isn't good enough? If that's the case, you'll need to get more comfortable and confident as your relationship grows.
2006-11-19 01:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by stevejensen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you lie over big things or small things it's not good and you know it, if you can't control it you really need to go talk to someone like a councilor to find what is causing it and get it under control.
2006-11-19 01:49:48 · answer #11 · answered by Just Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋