If you're 30 or older please answer? Do relationships and love become easier as you get older?

Question

Please list your reasons with your answers.

Answer 1

No, because we're still human. Hopefully we get clearer about what we want and what we will put up with.

Answer 2

as long as you're a minimum of 18, no guy is only too previous for you. An older guy can supply you finanial secure practices and might enlighten you previous your years. So what in case you do no longer pay attention to the comparable music or have comparable style experience; that's the transformations which will make each and every of you a greater nicely rounded man or woman and a greater effective couple.

Answer 3

They don't get easier. In fact, nothing does. You do have more experience to help you deal with stuff but you stay human. Everybody thinks that sex , drugs, peer pressure, getting along with parents, relationship crap and everything else is just a teenage thing. HA! Did you know that middle aged people are the fastest growing group for STD's? Did you know that middle aged people use drugs at a higher rate than some teen age groups? Make decisions that will work for you the rest of your life - you'll need all the wisdom you can muster until you die!

Answer 4

Yes because sometimes you don't care about all that petty **** you used to, you realize all men and women look at other people and it does not mean he/she still does not want you. Your happy sometimes just gossiping together or watching TV without a word and when it end you might look at each other "what the hell" and laugh. The sex is hotter because there is nothing you won't do for each other. I could go on forever, but the look in his eyes is all you need and his smile when you know you are acting silly. Last thing you know you can kick him out for the night and he will ride around looking for a hotel and come home at 2am and ask if he can give you $75 to sleep in the guest room.

Answer 5

Yes.

When most people are over 30, they know what they want and usually head for it without playing mind games in relationships and love. They're usually serious about what they're looking for. There are a few exceptions though with a few immature people I ran across.
While on the singles scene and talking with people, I found out men are less shallow than women. Men over 30 are more accepting regarding looks and other factors. They don't expect a "perfect 10".

I learned these things when I was dating to look for someone to marry.

Answer 6

YES. Because 1. both get experienced and know the art of sex games. 2. Also because people become more shameless with experience, child delivery etc.
I am 35 and my husband is 40. We enjoy sex more now a days than our young ages. We have done a few shameless things also recently such as 1. went to a hillock and had sex in the open on a full moon night 2. went to river side and had intercourse on the sand on full moon night 3. Went in a motor boat-house and stayed in the deep sea for one night and had intercourse in the boat-house which was stalingly witnessed by the boat crew. We have plans for many more such things in the years to come

Answer 7

They can because you have sorted out some of the crap but they still require work by both the man and woman to make it keep working especially these days as relationships are generally expected to only last up to 5 years at most .By this time usually you have children which then places more burden on the relationship needing both to work or share home duties equally to both maintain a balanced emotional life .But you can still expect some arguments I dont believe anyone who says they never argued during their marriage .

Answer 8

Relationships and love do not become any easier as you get older because they are still extremely complex subjects. You do learn from your mistakes though and you do begin to see warning signs of issues that need to be addressed earlier on. Have fun, enjoy life and pray for God to help you find that special someone.

Answer 9

Yes and no. As you grow older, you begin to understand that love is not defined solely by how another makes you feel. You begin to realize that love is a partnership between two people who have chosen to care about one another. That is in a healthy relationship of course. In an unhealthy one, you hide some of his money for awhile and get a degree in nursing before you take half of his stuff in a nasty divorce.

Answer 10

i met my wife when i was 30- we were married when i was 31.... from the perspective of a guy, by that point i had dated enough different women to know what i was looking for and finally mature enough to recognize it when i found my perfect match...
maybe more importantly, i realized that i didn't need to be "perfectly ready" to get married- i had always thought i had to be a certain place in my career, have a certain amount of savings etc- those things really fell into place after we were married...
i think love/relationships get easier in the sense that most people aren't about wasting time in meaningless relatonships as they get older, and people are more mature about handling things...
the best in life are yet to come~ =)

Answer 11

Yes, my relationship with my husband has become easier. We got married when I was 22. I'm now 32. We never argued much, but now we hardly argue at all. We know more about each other and how to work around each other or come together.