I want my exgirlfriend back. SHe broke up with me and we were together for 7 months and she said it was because the parents didnt like each other and she wanted to be single and experince the high shcool experience. What should i do? I am madly in love with her and have been physically ill lately because i miss her so much. I would die to see her with another guy and i could never be with another girl. Please, help please!
2006-11-18 17:39:32 · 10 answers · asked by Tommy T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoa, calm down sparky! First of all, get ahold of yourself! You have to let her go...I am very sorry to say but if you force her back into a relationship with you it will turn out bad in the end. She wants to be free right now and can you blame her? You are in high school. You should date around too, she might just need to date around a bit to realize that you are "the one", you never know. Just remember this saying "if you love something, let it go...if it comes back, it is yours forever."
2006-11-18 17:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, think she might want you back as well although she might not show it as you do, god luck! this is coming from the mouth of a girl recently dumped by after a nearly a year relationship because her boyfriends' friends hated her and he couldnt stand the pressure but i act strong not to show my feelings altough im hurt, try talking to her! good luck and a big hug! you dont lose anything by trying and if it doesnt work look up be strong and hang in there! one last thing, read this poem by rudyard kipling, it might help you a bit:
IF
IF you can keep your head
when all about you are losing theirs
And blaming it on you.
IF you can trust yourself
when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too.
IF you can dream and not make dreams your master.
IF you can think and not make thoughts your aim.
IF you can meet with triumph and disaster.
And treat those two impostors just the same.
IF you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken
And stoop and build'em up with worn out tools.
IF you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch and toss
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss.
IF you can force your heart, and nerve, and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone
And so "hold on" when there is nothing on you
except the will which says to them "hold on!"
IF you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue
Or walk with kings, nor lose the common touch.
IF neither foe nor loving friend can hurt you.
IF all men count with you ... but none too much.
IF you can fill the unforgiving minute
with sixty seconds worth of distant run.
Yours is the earth, and everything that's in it.
And which is more ... You'll be a Man, my son.
Rudyard Kipling
2006-11-19 01:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your buddies and forget her. She doesn't want you and wanting her is not going to help you.
You're young and this won't be the last time it happens. It will get easier.
I've gone a week without eating (much) and nearly failed out of university for a girl. Been there, and still around to tell the stories.
Lose one, find five. Cliche, but true once you get the stench of desperation and dispair off of you.
2006-11-19 01:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by C_n_Dman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly.. If the girl wants to remain single you can not do a thing..just let her go.. I know it really pains but leave her..
you could try to make her feel jealous with another girl..
You'll see how she behaves.. if she is weird then try telling that you still love her and if not..LEAVE HER.. because you'll die a thousand death if you see her with another guy.. i know how much it pains and follow ma advice if you can..
2006-11-19 01:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by Gothic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about her you will respect her and her wishes.
YOur in high school! You have your whole life before you and there are so many things yet to experience....seriously move on.
2006-11-19 01:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by dazzle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love somebody set her free. Move on.. Shes not the only girl in the world (ouuuchh.. look whos talking)..
2006-11-19 01:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you know that you love her try everything that you canto get her back. Go as far as you have to to reach out to her and show her that you care. If she's worth it Embarass yourself if you have to. Push yourself to your limits. Goodluck
2006-11-19 01:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by Mary Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE YOU NEED TO JUST MOVE ON. IT WILL
BE HARD AT FIRST,BUT YOU WILL GET OVER HER
BUT START TO THINK ABOUT GOING OUT AND MEETING
OTHER YOUNG LADIES. SHE DOES NOT WANT TO BE
WITH YOU. SO RESPECT HER AND MOVE ON. IM SURE
SHE HAS.
2006-11-19 01:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow.. u need to move on.. but you really must like love her to have gotten sick by not being with her.
2006-11-19 01:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by laker4lyfe92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got her now she loves me not you the loser
2006-11-19 01:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋