I've been going out with this guy for say about a month and I still feel we are kind of distant. I would be okay with this usually but there is this other girl who likes him who I feel slightly threatened by and I was wondering are there any ways to make me and my boyfriend grow closer?
For example are their any ways to flirt with him so he'll feel more 'at home' with me or anything that I can do to make him find me irresistible or cute (I know that sounds kind of corny)
2006-11-18 17:37:04 · 7 answers · asked by Pandoooo;. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So far he's told me once that he loves me and he offered to beat up a guy that grabbed my butt and called me sexy.
2006-11-18 17:39:00 · update #1
I was thinking differently. I was thinking about playing hard to get.
You don't have to do anything to make him choose you over the others. Instead I think it would be best to make him come to you.
Just tell him "I think you like the other girl more than me. I guess it's time for me to back out so you can spend your time with her."
If he really loves you he wouldn't let you back out
If he doesn't love you then it's time for you to move on. Don't waste your time on little things like this. It's not worth it seriously.
If I was you, I would just have my own fun instead of stress myself out too muc.
I talk too much again. My mouth will kill me one day.
Good luck, girl!
2006-11-18 17:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by James 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not corny at all. You should talk to him about it. I think that way would make your relationsip better. No guarantee I'm not an expert at this
2006-11-19 01:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and have a good talk with him about "us"but don't push him to much, let him talk the most then he'll see that you want to hear what he has to say
2006-11-19 01:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by jenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, don't try to conjure up ways to make him like you more. If he doesn't like you the way you are, then he's not worth your time. Don't sweat the other girl.
2006-11-19 01:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be normal and talk to your boy friend , openly about your relationship.. he will understand and come closer,,
2006-11-19 01:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by tiger_agra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear provocative clothes around him. really nice and tight clothes so he can see how pretty you are and desire you.
2006-11-19 01:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by h2gj87 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be calm and polite and little stylish.
.try to seduce him little and he is all yours
2006-11-19 01:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by ashishmulye 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋