So theres this girl im with. Ive only been with her for about a week but she already likes me a whole lot and she even says she loves me but i just dont like her as much as she likes me and there is also some other girl i want to be with but knowing how much she likes me, its gonna be really hard to break up with her and i was just asking how is the easiest way i can do this?
2006-11-18 17:32:41 · 16 answers · asked by Mike J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its gonna hurt her, no way around it, but you need to go ahead and do it now, before it gets even more serious. Take her for a walk, explain to her that while you are flattered that she has those feelings for you, your not ready to be in a serious relationship. Let her know that you dont want to be her boyfriend, that right now you just want to be her friend. She will most likely cry, apologize to her, wipe away her tears, kiss her forehead and tell her shes beautiful. Then walk away dont be a butt about it. And with the other girl your interested in take it slower than usual, make sure its what you want. That way the ex wont feel like you dumped her for somebody else, and you will know for sure if the new girl is what your looking for before you get in this situation again.
2006-11-18 17:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by donnakygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude, I say it's your fault here. You led this poor girl on. You should have never started something up with this girl, if you knew you were just gonna be fickle and immature. I'm sorry, but my only advice is to tell you is to grow out of your pullups and grow into some big boy underwear.
2006-11-19 01:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by mommymommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok DONT HAVE A FRIEND DO IT! 1st off she wont quit bugging you if you do it that way she will want reasons and every other thing....ok so heres what you do....
you make an excuse...
example: (face to face)
listen i dont want to make this harder than it is. but im just not into you the ay i was. i like you and you seem cool and your really pretty your just going way to fast so maybe we should take a break and see our other options and if its ment to happen it will.....
tada! break up over!
2006-11-19 01:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by kaycee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a real problem with people falling in love so fast and one week is pretty fast.
Let her know things are going way to fast for you and it would be better to stop things now.
Just one week that's about all you owe her.
2006-11-19 01:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be mature and be honest with her or you can hide out like a little boy and have a friend break up with her for you.
2006-11-19 01:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by R1Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The truth.
You've only been with her for about a week. She can't be that hooked on you by now. Do it privately and don't embarrass her.
2006-11-19 01:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by DA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her!
Theres no use trying to prolong it. It will be even worse if you would be with her longer. Tell her nicely. She'll move on.
2006-11-19 01:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do u knw thr are two types of girls...one who loves you seriously,hardly from the heart,nd others who pretends like loving just for time pass...........i thin this girl belongs to the first cats gory.......it s too bad breaking the love of her........but if u want to do that so,talk with her nd try to clarify what s she for you....bur zat s too bad yaar...remember zat women are soft hearted n nature...............
2006-11-19 01:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by munaiz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say she moved in too fast, and that you just want a friendship now.
2006-11-19 01:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her youre not ready to be so serious so soon.besides ,i dont think shes in love with you already.
2006-11-19 01:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by surri 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋